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Ok..this is a situation that I have found myself in quite a few
times..guys wanting me to pick them over my family..especially my mother..I even had one guy to just flat out tell me to disown my family while he still kept all of his..luckily I'm not THAT stupid..lol..has anyone else here found themselves in this situation? ![]() |
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i have always been very close to my family. anyone that knows me would
never ask me to give them up. they know that the next thing they would hear is the door closing behind them. |
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NICE YOU KICKED HIM TO THE CURB LADY, THATS JUST NASTY.
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Thats how it is with me Tameka..my mother is my best friend and whoever
can't accept that can hit the road..cuz the way I feel about it if you want me you have to accept my people too..no one anywhere will ever come between or before my mother..and thats how you know if a person really loves you or not..they will or won't accept you for you |
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Good for you!!!!!!!!!!
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absolutely Lady... not going to give up someone who was there for me for
30 years for someone i have known for 30 days... but i do have to say that my family would also have to accept my choice of partners... it has to go both ways... though i would never choose one over the other. |
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HEY LADYO ITS FUN LOVIN THE ONE YUR WITH , AND HAVIN A LOVE HATE
RELATIONSHIP WITH THE INLAWS, ISNT THAT HOW IT WORKS. LMAO XXOO. |
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Yes i have and i left both of them.
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My mom has always accepted the guys I wanted to be with..she's even
tried to be friends with them..until they did something to piss me off then she wants to go after them..lol |
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WELL I STILL RESPECTED MY X MOTHER.
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UBET AND GOOD FOR HER , NOBODY HURTS BABY!!!!!
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right now, i would have to say that ICE is my protector... so if someone
hurts me, they would have to face her wrath... oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh, scary.... LOL my mom would try to keep the peace as well, but she has her limits, as well. |
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My mama has no limits..lol..I may be 28yrs old but as she puts it I am
still her baby..lol..so yeah..I shed one tear over a guy and she wants to hunt him down..lol..but I would do the same for her..matter of fact I have cussed many of her exes out over her..lol..I once asked one of her exes if he had met someone and if he met her in a chatroom called "Men with little d*cks and the women who love them"..lmao..Ok so I can be bad sometimes..lol |
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Right on! you gotta have her back too...
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you go girl! my mom was my best friend. She passes many years ago and i
really miss her. BIG SAD SIGH! Lady my mom used to say... A sons a son till he takes a wife. BUT a daughters a daughter for the rest of your life. Thats so true! ![]() |
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my ex was like that he even smashed my cell phone b/c my mom called me.
He was a nut case tried to control me and i am sooo not the type that can be "controlled" So i ditched his ass. Family if more important to me b/f's come and go but family are there for life. |
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Well ya should never have to chose family over a partner that is just
wrong. Heck I'm actually still very close to my ex-mother in-law how strange is that ya think when someone I date meets the ex-mother in-law instead of the parents. Since I no longer have my parents she is like a mother to me. So get real if they can't handle it hey they know where the door is shsssssssssh if not do they really want me to show them where it is lol. NOT lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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if anyone would give me that choice
i would say GOOD BYE family comes first if im wrong then throw rocks at me... ![]() ![]() ![]() if not just give me a million dollor smile i love my family n i expect any woman im with do also party on.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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