Topic: Family vs Relationship....
LadyOfMagic's photo
Thu 04/05/07 08:46 PM
Ok..this is a situation that I have found myself in quite a few
times..guys wanting me to pick them over my family..especially my
mother..I even had one guy to just flat out tell me to disown my family
while he still kept all of his..luckily I'm not THAT stupid..lol..has
anyone else here found themselves in this situation?noway

Tameka's photo
Thu 04/05/07 08:48 PM
i have always been very close to my family. anyone that knows me would
never ask me to give them up. they know that the next thing they would
hear is the door closing behind them.

seahawks's photo
Thu 04/05/07 08:50 PM
NICE YOU KICKED HIM TO THE CURB LADY, THATS JUST NASTY.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Thu 04/05/07 08:59 PM
Thats how it is with me Tameka..my mother is my best friend and whoever
can't accept that can hit the road..cuz the way I feel about it if you
want me you have to accept my people too..no one anywhere will ever come
between or before my mother..and thats how you know if a person really
loves you or not..they will or won't accept you for you

alexiateigra's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:04 PM
Good for you!!!!!!!!!!

Tameka's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:06 PM
absolutely Lady... not going to give up someone who was there for me for
30 years for someone i have known for 30 days... but i do have to say
that my family would also have to accept my choice of partners... it has
to go both ways... though i would never choose one over the other.

seahawks's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:09 PM
HEY LADYO ITS FUN LOVIN THE ONE YUR WITH , AND HAVIN A LOVE HATE
RELATIONSHIP WITH THE INLAWS, ISNT THAT HOW IT WORKS. LMAO XXOO.

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:10 PM
Yes i have and i left both of them.flowerforyou

LadyOfMagic's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:11 PM
My mom has always accepted the guys I wanted to be with..she's even
tried to be friends with them..until they did something to piss me off
then she wants to go after them..lol

seahawks's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:12 PM
WELL I STILL RESPECTED MY X MOTHER.

seahawks's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:13 PM
UBET AND GOOD FOR HER , NOBODY HURTS BABY!!!!!

Tameka's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:13 PM
right now, i would have to say that ICE is my protector... so if someone
hurts me, they would have to face her wrath... oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh,
scary.... LOL

my mom would try to keep the peace as well, but she has her limits, as
well.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:20 PM
My mama has no limits..lol..I may be 28yrs old but as she puts it I am
still her baby..lol..so yeah..I shed one tear over a guy and she wants
to hunt him down..lol..but I would do the same for her..matter of fact I
have cussed many of her exes out over her..lol..I once asked one of her
exes if he had met someone and if he met her in a chatroom called "Men
with little d*cks and the women who love them"..lmao..Ok so I can be bad
sometimes..lol

Tameka's photo
Thu 04/05/07 09:25 PM
Right on! you gotta have her back too...

Barbiesbigsister's photo
Fri 04/06/07 07:36 AM
you go girl! my mom was my best friend. She passes many years ago and i
really miss her. BIG SAD SIGH!
Lady my mom used to say...
A sons a son till he takes a wife.
BUT a daughters a daughter for the rest of your life. Thats so
true!flowerforyou

AutumnLee21's photo
Fri 04/06/07 07:43 AM
my ex was like that he even smashed my cell phone b/c my mom called me.
He was a nut case tried to control me and i am sooo not the type that
can be "controlled" So i ditched his ass. Family if more important to me
b/f's come and go but family are there for life.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/06/07 07:44 AM
Well ya should never have to chose family over a partner that is just
wrong. Heck I'm actually still very close to my ex-mother in-law how
strange is that ya think when someone I date meets the ex-mother in-law
instead of the parents. Since I no longer have my parents she is like a
mother to me. So get real if they can't handle it hey they know where
the door is shsssssssssh if not do they really want me to show them
where it is lol. NOT lollaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

twosteper's photo
Fri 04/06/07 12:46 PM
if anyone would give me that choice

i would say

GOOD BYE

family comes first

if im wrong then throw rocks at me...laugh laugh laugh

if not

just give me a million dollor smile


i love my family n i expect any woman im with do also



party on....drinker drinker drinker drinker