What does one do when they cant get over an ex? Any advise?

get under another one

Dont wanna do the "rebound" thing...not fair to the other guy...goof :)

they usually go out with me to make their ex jealous

Now that would DEF make the "ex" jealous...

Thing is....we broke up..he started dating this girl a month afterwards..been w/her off/on for lil over a year now. Calls me all the time..says he misses/loves me still thinks about me all the time. I say "what about the girl"...he says "SHES NOT YOU"..what the hell does that mean? GEEZE..how horrible for the girl..to think he loves her when he is still being stupid and calling me....grrr!~

curl up into a ball in the corner
and stay there the rest of your life
just kidding
i din't know, ya gotta start somewhere

Get training wheels. The first person you date after a relationship is always a wash anyway, so it's best to realize that and get it over with.

Maybe she's his back up plan.

I am a very deep feeling person. I just feel bad for the girl.

Smoke alot of weed and snort valium???

Time....

Ya! what E-train said! LOL

Azgirl....I'm a great listener so anytime you want or need to talk...I'll be there for you. Secondly...this "Ex" of yours sounds like he needs to stay just that.He is playing you and his new girl with talk like that.He just wants the new nookie and the old as well.When he argues with her....he needs/wants you...to make him feel better again.Or to think at least that everything will be cool fer a while but that is exactly that.Just his feelings....not yours or hers. You both are better without the cheddar in your lives and besides...he was an idiot to leave you or cheat on someone like you anyways.

From a man's point of view, he doesn't hate the girl he's with, he just bored.

When he said "she's not you" he was being honest in the respect that you don't possess the flaws his other girl has.

Don't be fooled. IF and only if you accept him back into your life, you will be sitting in the same seat as the girl you feel sorry for today. The good he sees in you will fade, and he'll only begin to see the flaws more and more everyday you're with him

He'll look at the other girls and realize they don't have the same flaws as you and be enfatuated with them. He'll tell the girls "She's not YOU"

I'd say drop him if you don't want to be a victim twice.

You ^^^ are very sweet. Thank you. What I didnt say was that when he calls..(more so lately) I do not answer or return the calls. I just want him and her to work out w/out ME being in that picture. Thank you again for the advise. :)

LOL, maybe you should tell her he still calls you for revenge.

Maybe he'll learn his lesson about calling other girls. maybe he won't

Im not vindictive like that...I dont like to hurt other ppl's feelings...

would you like someone to call you with that info if you were in their shoes?