How do you know if you are in love with the right man?

Is it possible to fall in love with another at the same time, or out of
love with one and into with another?

Hey fine I would like to know the same thing, good question!

Wow ... Fine .. that is a loaded question for sure , I think ...
From the male side, I would say yeah , I guess its possible as it
happens everyday , I would think .. but for me personally ??? . I am
almost positive that if those feelings where to present themselves to
me, ie: fall into "love" with another , I would NOT act upon it as I am
still involved , or in love with the original person ... understand ???

Just my opinion No one can tell you how or if or when you fall in love
with the right person That comes from you on the inside and as far as
falling in love with another at the same time I don't think it would be
real becayse what you feel for one is talking from the other Your not
giving all of you to one person What I mean is your heart and sould if
you were to say

Yes TTO but let's take this a little bit farther, the first guy stated
that it was all about him for now

Great response twotall!!!

Well how can he say its ALL about him, IF he is involved with someone
???... IT can 't be ALL aboutone or the other ... sorry ... again ,,..
I was involved wit hsomeone who presented the ALL about me attitude ???
it would be over in a heart beat .. a realtionship is covered by 2 ..
can't be just one .. maybe I am missing the point .. sorry

hmmmmmmmmm i wonder that too, fine..i've been there..paid the
consequences too for it.

No TTO you haven't missed anything

just my 2 cents worth but maybe it boils down to the difference between
"loving" someone and being "in love"? I have loved many but been "in
love" (and since for whatever reason those didn't work out I'm not even
sure about that) with only a few? We have supposedly an infinite
capacity for love but I think when it's "in love" it's only going to be
for that one person and that's going to require them to feel the same
about us. Just as they say you can't possibly MAKE someone love you then
you sure as hell can't MAKE them fall IN LOVE with you either. Even when
you're "in love" with someone that doesn't mean you can't find someone
else attractive or be attracted to someone else but you wouldn't act on
it out of respect for the person you're in love with knowing it would
devastate them and their feelings mean as much to you as your own and
you wouldn't ever do anything intentionally knowing it would hurt them
in the very smallest way. We're human and there's no way to avoid
hurting the ones we love accidently from time to time but the stronger
the relationship the greater lengths we go to avoid that. If 2 people
are "in love" I'd think the bond would be strong and secure enough that
admitting one finds someone attractive would only be a topic for
discussion (like me telling her I find Haley Barry TOTALLY HOT!) and if
she disagreed I'd good naturedly tell her she needs her eys checked LOL
but regardless she wouldn't and shouldn't feel threatened by that
because it's just an observation and an admission of what one finds
attractive and she'd know even given the chance I'd never act on it
because there's too much between us.
I know this was sort of a ramble but hope it made a bit of sense here
and there.

its simple the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
we always want what we cant have.
yes it does included me but we move on.

It is possible to love more than one person. It's a matter of how
deeply the love is, and how deep the connection. And I have a theory
that the more you love, the easier to love others it can be.

WELL SURE I HAVE TO WIVES, IS THAT WRONG. LMAO

Seahawks, I once had a guy tell me if it was't illegal
to marry more than 1 persn he would marry me in heartbeat. I guess that
was supposed to flatter me or something, I dunno.

WELL 2 ARE BETTER THEN 1. LMAO

JUST TEASIN. LOL

hell seahawk, make it 3 o 4 or even 5 wives...

Try for 1 in each state.

I CANT WIN AN ARGUMENT WITH 1, LET ALONE 2 HAVIN TO SAY YES BABE YUR
RIGHT TWICE.I"LL PASS LMAO

@ pass..try on in each state..hell i can go for that.