Topic: leary.....
lonedaddy's photo
Sun 11/02/08 01:14 AM
So, here I am looking for a date/maybe a mate.....I finally found a gal, sweet kind, pretty, I'm just waiting for the ball to drop....is that self defeating behavior or what.....is anyone else leary????????

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Sun 11/02/08 01:22 AM
it comes with the territory just give it a chance before you drop the ball.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 11/02/08 01:25 AM
timothy leary,wowwy zowwy,drop out man

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Sun 11/02/08 01:27 AM
gO into it with an open mind but with a brain!!! Put that brain that is in your pants away for awhile.......and watch and learn!!:wink:

scoundrel's photo
Sun 11/02/08 01:39 AM
Waiting for the ball to drop

Prepared for a multitude of reasons that might be used as a reason for the ball to drop

Preparation means readiness to prevent dropping or the readiness to recover and keep things going on the right course.

Waiting without preparation is a quick way to suffer a stroke or suffer other kinds of unkind results from inactivity.

Actively prepare, and be ready. Confidence is in readiness.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 11/02/08 01:43 AM
The ball just keeps dropping...and dropping.....and dropping.

I'll let ya know when it actually reaches the bottom.

Pink_lady's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:22 AM

So, here I am looking for a date/maybe a mate.....I finally found a gal, sweet kind, pretty, I'm just waiting for the ball to drop....is that self defeating behavior or what.....is anyone else leary????????


By expecting it to not go anywhere, it prob wont, being defeatist wont do any good.Its a negative mind set.

Each new experience should be embraced with openness to it going eitherway way, successful or unsuccessful. Just relax and enjoy it for the moment ur in.

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 11/02/08 04:55 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sun 11/02/08 04:56 AM
is anyone else leary????????


Just some actor guy named Denis....maybe some dude named Timothy....

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Sun 11/02/08 05:02 AM

So, here I am looking for a date/maybe a mate.....I finally found a gal, sweet kind, pretty, I'm just waiting for the ball to drop....is that self defeating behavior or what.....is anyone else leary????????


It is self defeating, but it's not uncommon or even abnormal really. However, sometimes when we think this way, a minor character flaw that you see in someone turns into a big deal breaker in our minds just because we are looking for the THING that will cause the ball to drop. I used to (and probably still do to some extent) sabotage relationships all the time, and not just the "dating" ones. Just remember.....you ARE worthy and maybe that sweet, kind and pretty gal recognizes it!! If something happens and she doesn't, it's not the end of the world. You can't perseverate on what might happen. Keep your eyes open and your heart willing and good luck!

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Sun 11/02/08 05:04 AM
When you're waiting for the ball to drop, it will. You'll find a reason for it not to work.