Hi--I need advice so please just send it in an email to my profile instead of posting if you don't mind. Any and all are welcome to help me lol

Okay long story short--I was there for this guy through all b.s. drama, death, inherting a business from another state, sacrificing what childhood we could have had to be responsible adn mature asap to do this, and i stood by his side firm and strong the entire time with the understanding from both sides we are together but when this was all done we would have a better chance to be happy and do things 'right'. this is spanned over a few years--well when the business was sold and all settled he and me would get a 'normal healthy' chance at us. So my question and need for advice is I can't get this guy out of my head--every thing i see and do in some way reminds me of him and they way he hurt me. *just for knowledge he cheated on me w/ someone* so how do u move on?? so to speak??

kit

Move on...I don't email people advice that is self-explanatory.

lol how would u move on??? thats where i'm stuck telling him to leave me alone after he started the whole lets be friends didn't work--burning photos as cliche as it seems didn't help-- i welcome suggestions

use me as the rebound guy

That's on you, different experience different circumstance...don't know, can't comment. All I know is it is better for you to move on now than later.

i agree... you move on...whatever it takes....mostly time, but, whatever works for you

lol hmmm another rebounder...could give that a try ;) lol

if you move on things change but, you have to decide to let it all go to move on.