Why do questions arise when thoughts flood into the mind about a person you may be interested in, how do you deal with those thoughts either positive or negative? If and when a lot is on your mind, how do you seperate the thoughts into priority? What thoughts come first for you?

Their real person, their truth.
I ask A LOT of questions,lol, and try to really feel their hearts.
But,,I do have a very BAD TRACK RECORD with my picks so far..

You might try something else,,,,,lol

Youre asking how the brain functions???? This could take a looooooooong time lucy~~!!!

If that is what you get from the question, I was just wondering on a personal level what you do.

I have worked very hard to be able to control my thought process, I know that if I am doing something that requires my 100% concentration, then that is what my mind does first. It will push all the unnecessary thoughts that is not needed at that time to the back of the mind. Sometimes I will forget about them, while others will come back to me while I am relaxing, like I am doing now.

Did any of that even make any sense?

Time to build my wall...thats how I deal

Interesting question.

I suppose that when the thoughts are positive I enjoy the moments.

If thoughts are negative I try to determine if they are real. By that I mean, am I being reactionary based upon unconscious programming. Am I dealing only with the truth of the situation at hand or am I bringing old stuff to the mix. Has an unhealed tender place been exposed?

I tend to be a pretty positive person so that is what I look for...the good in people, situations etc. Where negativity creeps in, I am usually shown an opportunity to heal something within myself.

Our thoughts are just our own perceptions. Knowing that helps me look with softer eyes.

is that a quote from that smashing pumpkins song eye?

hehe thought so...

Ok....lets see.....our thought processes come from perceptions, right or wrong, subconscious and conscious, old wounds, past/present/future...........and ego.

Ive also used......the quieting of the mind....just breathing in their essence....their aura? how do they make me feel??? Their vibration.