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Topic: Guys PLEASE....
Voluptuous's photo
Sun 11/02/08 10:04 PM
Edited by Voluptuous on Sun 11/02/08 10:05 PM


omg your situation sounds like me and my best friend.

him and i have been friends for 7 years. we live states apart. his wife insists i want her husband and so i should leave him be.


well im not going to let that tear up our friendship so we are friends behind her back.

and its purely friendship.

so she found out the other day and was threatening me. and im scared of her why?!?


stupid drama lol.


You really need to be friends so much with someone that you'll go behind the back of their supposed life partner? No matter how petty she is being, he chose her and it seems pretty disrespectful of both of you to continue on behind her back. I would say why not get to know her as well and maybe she won't feel threatened by you. Then you get an added friend and get to keep the man friend as well. I just think that would be so much better for all concerned.


My best friend is a man.
I don't EVER do anything involving him that doesn't involve his wife.
He is my best friend but I love her too. I have a lot of respect for the marriage. I have stepped in and saved it twice already.

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Sat 11/08/08 07:15 AM
Edited by simplelife123 on Sat 11/08/08 07:16 AM
1st off why the hell is he talking to his ex about you in the 1st place?Maybe he is using you to make her jealous or Maybe she's not an ex.2nd don't let someone's name calling get you down they are just showing how LOW they are by doing that.3rd there are allot of liars in the world and allot more on the internet because they think they are anonymous.

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Wed 11/12/08 07:40 AM

1st off why the hell is he talking to his ex about you in the 1st place?Maybe he is using you to make her jealous or Maybe she's not an ex.2nd don't let someone's name calling get you down they are just showing how LOW they are by doing that.3rd there are allot of liars in the world and allot more on the internet because they think they are anonymous.


I agree with the last 2 points made but the first isn't so.
He didn't "talk to his ex wife about me"...
Apparently, she got a hold of his phone while he was picking up his son and sent the text messages to me without his knowledge.

It's been quite a while since we last communicated.
He was angry and hurt I decided to sever all ties.
He thinks I blame him.ohwell

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Wed 11/12/08 09:19 AM
This thread is still going?laugh laugh

((Voluptuous))flowerforyou

cuppy59's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:47 PM
Whats up with this thread?laugh Maybe, I should say lack of!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 11/16/08 02:00 PM
I have enough drama in my life, noway


cuppy59's photo
Sun 11/16/08 02:03 PM

I have enough drama in my life, noway




You have drama...lol.....I dont...gimme some to keep me busy..laugh

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 11/16/08 02:05 PM


Wow, you don't look fat to me...


Thank you flowerforyou

Is it just me or is this way out of left field?
Is this to be expected often?


I have been dating online for longer than I would like to admit... and I have been contacted by several wives. Should this be expected? I hope not, but we should not be surprised.

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Mon 11/17/08 06:35 AM
i thnk wat u suggest is the right thing to do

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