Topic: Guys PLEASE....
Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:05 PM

this can happen anywhere....For example, you meet a guy at a club etc and you don't know the real deal either.


I don't go out at all!
I am a single mom of two boys and a widow.
I just don't think I am ready for the "real dating world" - NOT with crap like this!

I guess that's why I am here...trying to catch up on all conversation that I have missed over the past 7 yearsohwell

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:06 PM

haha she couldnt get laid by her own husband unless he was talking to you getting horny off your every day life.


:angel:
Never thought about it that way!

nvrsaynvr's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:06 PM
flowerforyou Ignore it...you are way better than the bottom feeders!

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:07 PM

Just walk away.


Oh, I plan to...sad thing is, I loose what I thought was a nice friendohwell

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:08 PM

flowerforyou Ignore it...you are way better than the bottom feeders!


I know it. I know it in my heart.
I wouldn't EVER over step my boundries with a married man.
I have the utmost respect for a marriage.

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:09 PM


Just walk away.


Oh, I plan to...sad thing is, I loose what I thought was a nice friendohwell


Well of course, it's your choice.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:09 PM
Maybe it was that girls "time of the month"? I dunno...just fishing for excuses for her.laugh laugh laugh


Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:11 PM

I think she feels that you are prettier than she is, and she has low self esteem, so she did this. Women....pftttttt!


I don't know...I haven't ever seen a picture of her.

Does it really matter?!?!
I wouldn't approach someone like that!

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:12 PM



Just walk away.


Oh, I plan to...sad thing is, I loose what I thought was a nice friendohwell


Well of course, it's your choice.


I don't think he knows what happened...
I might have to break the news to him tomorrow morning when he contacts me.

I can't get involved with **** like this...
Do you think I am wrong for punishing him over something she did?

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:13 PM


I think she feels that you are prettier than she is, and she has low self esteem, so she did this. Women....pftttttt!


I don't know...I haven't ever seen a picture of her.

Does it really matter?!?!
I wouldn't approach someone like that!


Just because you wouldn't doesn't mean someone else wouldn't. She obviously has a low opinion of herself. I mean, that is why I feel people put others down.

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:14 PM

Maybe it was that girls "time of the month"? I dunno...just fishing for excuses for her.laugh laugh laugh


Fishing...funny.
I imagine that is what her cesspool of a crotch smells like... He says she cheated with 2 of his friends ill



Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:16 PM

Just because you wouldn't doesn't mean someone else wouldn't. She obviously has a low opinion of herself. I mean, that is why I feel people put others down.


^^^ That is my first mistake trying to understand people...
I give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they will do the right thing.frustrated

looking4u52's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:16 PM
It amazes me how immature people can be. Just because people are adults it doesn't mean they are grown up.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:18 PM


Just because you wouldn't doesn't mean someone else wouldn't. She obviously has a low opinion of herself. I mean, that is why I feel people put others down.


^^^ That is my first mistake trying to understand people...
I give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they will do the right thing.frustrated


I know what you mean. I believe that people are basically good and that they will have honor and all that....but alot let you down. But I still believe.

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:18 PM

It amazes me how immature people can be. Just because people are adults it doesn't mean they are grown up.


* sigh *

Too bad he decided to procreate with it

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:19 PM
Edited by Voluptuous on Thu 10/30/08 09:20 PM

I know what you mean. I believe that people are basically good and that they will have honor and all that....but alot let you down. But I still believe.


Goof,
A LOT HAVE LET ME DOWN whoa

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:23 PM


I know what you mean. I believe that people are basically good and that they will have honor and all that....but alot let you down. But I still believe.


Goof,
A LOT HAVE LET ME DOWN whoa


Again...I know the feeling.

But, I have met some great people on here who haven't. So I have hope.

No1sLove's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:44 PM
There are a lot of good people here. Don't let a bad experience ruin your opportunity to know the rest of us. flowerforyou

I would probably question why an ex would have access to your number...then again it happens. I still share a cell plan with my ex, but I know he has better things to do than spy on me. :tongue:

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:48 PM

There are a lot of good people here. Don't let a bad experience ruin your opportunity to know the rest of us. flowerforyou

I would probably question why an ex would have access to your number...then again it happens. I still share a cell plan with my ex, but I know he has better things to do than spy on me. :tongue:


I haven't the slightest idea...
He just got a new number 3 days ago...signed a contract with T-mobile.
I know they have a kid together so I'm going to go ahead and say while he was visiting the kid, she got a hold of his phone....?

I don't really give a poop. I just don't want her contacting me to insult me.

No1sLove's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:57 PM


There are a lot of good people here. Don't let a bad experience ruin your opportunity to know the rest of us. flowerforyou

I would probably question why an ex would have access to your number...then again it happens. I still share a cell plan with my ex, but I know he has better things to do than spy on me. :tongue:


I haven't the slightest idea...
He just got a new number 3 days ago...signed a contract with T-mobile.
I know they have a kid together so I'm going to go ahead and say while he was visiting the kid, she got a hold of his phone....?

I don't really give a poop. I just don't want her contacting me to insult me.
I certainly can't blame you. Sorry for your bad luck! frown flowerforyou