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Topic: I think i have brain damage
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Thu 10/30/08 04:40 PM

Is it possible that you like to go for the needy, vulnerable type? Sounds like you got a lot of guys that just love a bit of dramatic attention. Go look for people with self respect and balls.


people like that are like gum stuck on the bottom of your shoes..you dont go "looking for them", they are just out there and stick to whomever passes by..the key is to scrape em off and keep walking....

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Thu 10/30/08 04:43 PM


Is it possible that you like to go for the needy, vulnerable type? Sounds like you got a lot of guys that just love a bit of dramatic attention. Go look for people with self respect and balls.


people like that are like gum stuck on the bottom of your shoes..you dont go "looking for them", they are just out there and stick to whomever passes by..the key is to scrape em off and keep walking....


This is true, though it seems to me that some people like having gum stuck to their shoe

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Thu 10/30/08 06:25 PM

ive know one for 18 years hes my best friend or was and the other i use to work with and was married too


iam just so tired of it i feel really bad because iam buring out but i dont know how to help


1st: Before you can even take care of anyone else, you 1st need to take care of yourself.

2nd: It is not you. It is them. Other than probably being a nice person, it more likely that you were simply there for them (like a good friend would be). Don't beat yourself up. Just step back from the situation because you can't help them . They need someone who can be objective about their issues.

3rd: Sometimes, people are sad. I think historically it has been more difficult for men to let out their emotions & are more willing to attempt suicide in a violent manner which is why they have a higher suicide rate. If you know anyone that is currently going through this, call the authorities or a crisis hot-line.

Take Care,
Alexia

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