I'm a 21 year old woman , and I'm going to be a mother , and Ive only been in 4 relationships in my whole life , and They didn't turn out well , I was used , abused and had many head games played , Ive been single about 6 or 7 months , and don't get me wrong I'm happy in my life and being single . but I would like to try and start over .Ive been getting asked that if I'm only looking for a LTR just because I'm pregnant and NO I'm not , In all honestly I'm looking for friends first and companionship in the hopes of it turning LT. Is it wrong of me for only wanting companionship right now?


And is there anyone out there that feels the same way as I do?


Please help ,
Thank you

Sorry to tell you, but being that you are pregnant, companionship is about the only thing you are going to find. I hope I'm wrong, so good luck!

no its not wrong, im sure we all felt that way. when i was 21 i was home taking care of my daughter and i was single. i wasent with my daughter dad and he wasent much in her life any how.

There's nothing wrong with wanting companionship -- it's perfectly normal. A long-term relationship is not something you need to jump into, anyway -- take your time and get to know people first. Watch out for the red flags, and you might be able to avoid some nasty and unpleasant surprises down the road.

I always tell people that the best way to make friends on this site is to participate in the forums. That way, you can get to know the people here while they get to know about you. And there are a lot of great people here.

Good luck, and have fun!

i have a friend that was pg when she met her husband, in fact he claimed both her kids so its not always companionship

well thank you for giving your advise , , good luck to both of you in your search =). Hopefully someone will still want to be with me even Tho I'll have a child.

My dad met my stepmom when she was pregnant with kiddo number FIVE. She got divorced right before she found out was pregnant with kiddo number SIX, and my dad has been married to her for 22 years. All six kids are her exs.

Not always true...my brother met a girl at a baseball game on day...she was very pregnant and he began talking to her...she actually went into labor during the game...my brother drove her to the hospital, waited on the baby to be delivered, went to the phone and ordered flowers, he and my sister in law have been married for 12 years

wow that is a very wonderful story , thank you for sharing with me , It is good to know just because I'm going to be having a baby that there is still Hope for me to find someone.

Pleasant companionship of the opposite sex is always a nice thing Honey. Nothing wrong with so don't second guess yourself. Certainly beats staring at the walls. Now you just need to find yourself a fellow anime' geek who loves "Ghost in the Shell" as much as I do! (My absolute favorite!!!!!)

Nothing wrong with looking for companionship. IMO it is the best place to start. If a person cannot deal with your being pregnant - would you really want to get to know them for the LT?