My faith in God has kept me centered through some difficult situations.I
feel as though most women don't respect a man who is "real" on all
levels.What do you think?

i really dont think u wanna know what i think about this...

pl, maybe you just haven't met the right one yet. Being totally real,
is a good thing. To much REAL to fast might not be good. Could you be
trying to hard, pushing justy a little. Maybe toning down the REAL &
letting things go at a slower speed will give you better results. Just
a thought from how I understood your REAL.

buttons be nice but answer his question. He asked.

feel free to speak freely.it's an honest question

well for one u say most women... wondering how many are u really talking
about ? cause i dont beleive that is true every woman wants a true
guy..or real..

for two sounds like a cop out to me... maybe they werent interested? if
u say most... ya need to take a second look at yourself?

Being Real is a good thing and trust me Women enjoy the Real in
a man, Yet coming on to strong or seeming pushy can and will
be a turn off to some Women,,, Being yourself in the Real, does
not mean you have to go overboard, take it slow give her time to
see for herself in your words and actions who you really are, Learning
someone and feeling the connection between two Souls takes time the
Journey of life is not a race, yet a slow walk in order to *Really* get
to know that persons Soul,,, (Just my opinion)

Have a Great Day

i mean maybe something u are saying to them that u consider "real" may
not be so attractive ... whatever it may be? so think about what ya said
or did to "Most of the women"

coming on too fast and too strong are things that i don't do.i've been
hurt too many times and enjoy taking things slow.that way i get to know
the "real" person.i'm just a hopeless romantic and have a hard time
seeing the light at the end of the tunnel

also i'm not talking about a current relationship.it just seems to be a
recurring pattern

Hell Were all hopeless Romantics, Yet one can not rush Love, it takes
time,, I do know thier is a light at the end of the tunnel or I would
like to thank so,,, Stop looking so hard, She will find you. Remember
its not a race,,, its a slow walk,, With lots of obstacles in the
way,,,

This is a topic I can relate to.I practically spoil the hell out of
every guy I've been with and still got dumped or cheated on.I just don't
understand.I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't but I don't let it
give me issues because I have enough confidence and faith that god will
send me someone who will appreciate all I have to offer.

It's good that your faith keeps you grounded so keep your chin up and
the right woman will come.

Gods name is falling off of this planet bro...let me tell you if u
represent God you must do it well and or carefully. you got a 75%
divorce rate in america yet people still rather talk about lust than
love....when you get on the God tip people will turn their heads against
u giving you no weight...women bit the apple if u get yourself into a
relationship with an atheist girl shes going to bring that whole shallow
package with her...american women are colder uncultured, more so a
follower of trends, less unique than international girls.. you can still
get the respect tho in my opinion if you are strong enough and genuine
in composure...If you seek the respect of a women for your faith dont
expect it all at once you have to tame her into appreciating and
understanding faith itself to the point where she isnt embarassed about
it around other people....nobody would have the balls 2 tell u all this
cus they dont want 2 be examined on it...their heart/souls are weak and
fearful, lost, remember- 80% of the world is sheep 10% is wolf the other
10%(sheepdog) i like to call this 10% the snake handler crew
and thats why i say i am at my best in life when in the most dangerous
of situations.

Man you sure do like your percentages.lol.Anything else oh wise one?

"If you seek the respect of a women for your faith dont
expect it all at once you have to tame her into appreciating and
understanding faith itself to the point where she isnt embarassed about
it around other people...."

Sean, me friend, I think maybe you better look more closely at what you
wrote, unles you are looking to p!ss a lot of people off ( and I am sure
you do not intend to do that ).

From what you have written it appears that you feel man is moer
religious and faith believing han ladies. I may be wrong but hat is how
it appears. And truth be told, it is the lady that is almost always
more faith beieving and religious, not man.

Look at you different church organizations; the majority are ran by
women not men. Te majority of memberships in these organizations are of
women not men.

Just thought I would warn ya so you could have a chance to think baout
htis befroe people start slamming ya about it

Peace and love,

Dan

Sean, fully respect your right to post as you see fit. Understand that
your 22yrs have filled you with intelligence.
It is that intelligence that helped you notify us of your presence, as
you did.
I hope that when you reach my age (56), that life will make you even
more intelligent. That way way you can look back on some of the things
you have said & done & rethink them; as I have.

american women are colder uncultured, more so a
follower of trends, less unique than international girls..



For your statement Seanbfresh: maybe you should consider that American
women are not colder or unclultured. Matter of fact we have more culture
than the international women we have learned about life and have learned
to speak our minds.But then if speaking our minds makes us seem colder
well so be it. If your looking for someone to bow at your feet and do
your every whimp. Then maybe you should consider getting you a mail
order bride that will bow to you and be beneath you. For women that are
raised in the states and soon learn the cultures find out that a woman
is not beneath a man but there equal. And if a man does not treat them
as that they will not stay with them. Women were not put here to be
beneath a man but to be proctected and to be his equal. Even that is in
God's words.

As far as respect it is something that is given in the beginning. But it
is something that you must give in return in order to receive it back.
So if for some reason you are not getting the respect you think you
deserve maybe you should take a close look and make sure your actually
given the respect you want back.


Even at times we think we are given all that we have towards a
relantionship. Sometimes what we think is our all is not our best. We
are all guilty of this at times. Sometimes we expect to much from others
and don't want to see our own faults.

define "real"

sorry dan im not talkin about the religous type of lady im talkin about
the average american women vs international and that was just 2 help him
understand my gist of the situation and it is true that women are more
faithful once taking on faith......i spent my time throwing in my 2
cents cus i look around me and all i see are sheep.

im not wise i just know what my heart/soul knows...and im not passive
like sheep so i dont have 2 follow the crowd conformity doesnt exist
for a leader once u turn your life around you become stronger and more
powerful than ever before and its not a head trip its real like a tear
comin down my right eye some 1 puts a gun 2 my head and says if u
believe in God ill shoot on the spot id almost excitedly say that i do
knowing that i might be killed because im "REAL ON THAT LEVEL" this is 4
the guy posting the topic and dan.....so if i see some 1posting that
they dont care ill know its just another demon upset with my
actions/moves