Topic: What attracts you ....
brenlee1965's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:34 PM
to a woman when you first meet.....

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Fri 10/17/08 07:38 PM
her face
her body
her eyes
her smile
her voice
her personality
her touch

in that order

krupa's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:39 PM
A pulse helps.

A relaxed smile.

An unforced laugh.

Smoothe and easy conversation.



Other than that...I gotta go with the physical things I look at in a woman....wrists and ankles...(Sounds freakish..I know) But it says alot about a body.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:41 PM
If she looks at me....instant erection.laugh

RKISIT's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:41 PM
her looks sorry but the truth shall set me free,you did ask when you first meet a woman.then personality,if im not physically attracted,then its just a waste of time,period:smile:

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Fri 10/17/08 07:43 PM
At first its is definately Looks and Body.

But after that there must be more to her.


Yes I know i want it all

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Fri 10/17/08 07:46 PM
Of course it's her appearance first - but she's got to have a good and kind personality to back up her appearance......

krupa's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:53 PM
In all fairness guys.....gotta say....


I have been with stunningly physically beautiful women that ended up just leaving a bad taste in my mout....(So to speak)

I have been with less than perfect women who have been awesome...(intellectually and sexually)

Don't misunderstand...The best of both worlds would be nice.

Too bad I don't believe that the PENTHOUSE forums are real.

Sure the occasional "Too good to be true" thing will stroll up....

But, if you ain't compatible....looks mean nothing.

romeo1975's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:53 PM
i look for 3 things

A. confidence(i doubt myself enough dont need someone else to doubt themselves.)

B. Intelligence(cause heaven forbid you cannot carry on a conversation)

C. A smile that can melt my heart and make me turn into putty

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 10/17/08 07:58 PM

Of course it's her appearance first - but she's got to have a good and kind personality to back up her appearance......
What does it matter if you notice she harbor's these qualitie's you seek when, you still treat her a second fiddle?

awolf1010's photo
Fri 10/17/08 08:18 PM


Of course it's her appearance first - but she's got to have a good and kind personality to back up her appearance......
What does it matter if you notice she harbor's these qualitie's you seek when, you still treat her a second fiddle?
if you wanna play in texas,ya gotta have a fiddle in the band!!!

eileena9's photo
Fri 10/17/08 08:21 PM



Of course it's her appearance first - but she's got to have a good and kind personality to back up her appearance......
What does it matter if you notice she harbor's these qualitie's you seek when, you still treat her a second fiddle?
if you wanna play in texas,ya gotta have a fiddle in the band!!!


That lead guitars hot but not for "Louisiana Man"

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Sat 10/18/08 04:23 AM


Of course it's her appearance first - but she's got to have a good and kind personality to back up her appearance......
What does it matter if you notice she harbor's these qualitie's you seek when, you still treat her a second fiddle?


Who said anything about treating anyone as a second fiddle? I meant that it's not just about the looks......sorry if it came across in a way I hadn't intended.

BigGlenn's photo
Sat 10/18/08 04:35 AM
You need to connect with the eyes. The question was the "First" thing right?

The eyes.

BigGlenn's photo
Sat 10/18/08 04:36 AM
You need to connect with the eyes. The question was the "First" thing right?

The eyes.

FETTS61's photo
Sat 10/18/08 04:50 AM
1 eyes

2 hair

3 smile

mistarr's photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:21 AM

to a woman when you first meet.....


facial expression
eyes
personality
physique

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Sat 10/18/08 06:28 AM

Of course it's her appearance first - but she's got to have a good and kind personality to back up her appearance......


I was in a relationship for almost 5 yrs. After little and finally NO intimacy and my constant questioning him...what's wrong???? His words to me was "I find nothing about you physically attractive" How can you have a relationship with someone who didn't find their partner physically attractive in some way?

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Sat 10/18/08 06:30 AM

her face
her body
her eyes
her smile
her voice
her personality
her touch

in that order


I like this list.

I would add, however, that she needs to be able to use complete sentences and understand words of more than one syllable.

I know, I know, too "selective"....




Nova86's photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:30 AM
i would say that the first thing that attracts me to a woman when i first meet her has to be her smile....i am the biggest sucker for a pretty smile and a sense of humor