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Topic: Someone please tell me when it stops
Lily0923's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:09 PM

It does end if you completely break all ties and make it hard for him to contact you or talk to you. I had the same problem and it finally ended but it took maybe 3-4 years maybe longer I do not remember exactly.


We have a 6 year old together. I have 12 years left...

krupa's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:10 PM
Act like you are desperate for him. Desperation is a huge turn off for guys.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:14 PM

Act like you are desperate for him. Desperation is a huge turn off for guys.


He's dumb, not stupid...he wouldn't fall for that one....

krupa's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:24 PM
Apparently you give guys more credit than I do. I am one of them....I know!

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:33 PM
Mine actually quit after about 2 1/2 years and a phone call he received that I was unaware of till a few years later. Found out he got a phone call that someone told him they knew what clubs he went to and if he did not back off he would end up with two broke legs and a few more broke bones if they heard he called me one more time and threaten me. Hummmm I always wondered why the phone calls stopped and life got so much more peaceful. bigsmile

But actually I was totally unaware of the phone call till several years later.

But ohhh it was so much more pleasant.

Dan99's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:35 PM
lily, it will stop when you take a 6ft 7" Irishman to go see them..

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:37 PM

lily, it will stop when you take a 6ft 7" Irishman to go see them..


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: yep that will do it :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

alonenotlonely's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:37 PM

:cry: I have no idea:cry:


Ditto.

Unfortunately.

I need a stalker right now.

MicheleNC's photo
Thu 10/16/08 08:56 PM
Ahhh, Lily, it will be forever. Even when your child is grown you will still have to deal with him.

Been divorced for 6+ years, apart for 7+ years and my ex still gives me grief. Mind you, he is remarried with another child. I went away for the weekend with the new beau and he tried to call and pee in my cornflakes via long distance.

Most of the time he is really good (as a friend and a father to our son), but sometimes he can be a complete and total moron.

Just breathe...and ignore him the best you can.

flowerforyou M

talldub's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:22 PM

lily, it will stop when you take a 6ft 7" Irishman to go see them..

Accidents can, and will, happen :wink:

Lily0923's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:24 PM

lily, it will stop when you take a 6ft 7" Irishman to go see them..


Yes, he offered to break a knee cap or two for me..... See why I'm smitten

Lily0923's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:25 PM


lily, it will stop when you take a 6ft 7" Irishman to go see them..

Accidents can, and will, happen :wink:


:heart: My sugar....:heart:

krupa's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:31 PM
Only 6'7"? Poor lil fellow.


Soooooo, did you get your Ireland PAckage? What was in it?

Voluptuous's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:35 PM
Edited by Voluptuous on Thu 10/16/08 09:37 PM
Boys are so stupid!rofl

...What about the one where they contact you and say:
"You know me the best out of everyone...what do you think about__________..."spock

....Psssst, what the hell gave you the impression I cared?!?!?!surprised

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:44 PM
Did you ever see that movie "Throw Momma from the Train"? I have an annoying ex too. :wink:

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