Meet somone that you might be Compatible with. In now way i mean finding that so call one. That to me don't exist, but i do think and actually i have meet somone that i have known for over a year that was on here that i will be meeting that i feel things might work out, but one never knows untill you spend time with each other. Anyway, i been on here for 2 years now and as many of you have read so many post about Men/Women and how relatioships don't seem to work out and at the same time were on the net looking for somone. Not everyone is, i know that. But i was sitting here thinking how many of us sit here night after night after night after night etc etc talking to friends hoping or by chance somone will email you or you email them that you will hit it off. And at the same time i'm thinking this is a dating site right? lol if you want to call it that, but how many of you actually gone on date? and been on this site over a year or coming up to it. There has to be somthing els other then so call dating site to meet people. If you think about it, we wast more then half are time sitting here making post and going ove and over and over the same situtions. Don't get me wrong here. I'm just thinking what the hell are we really doing here? and youll get the same answers, i'm here for friends,fun, flerting, some for sex, Good luck lol that.

But stop and really think about this. Where the hell are you actually going in life being on here?

At this point, I'm just here to chat with friends, online dating is pretty much a waste of time.

I like it here. Don't care if I meet anyone or not.

Actually it is knowing you can talk to them by phone

J'apprécie ce site parce que ceci est où les femmes sont.

I could care less about meeting someone here,

why my age says 666

first off, i've met a few great gals on here that i've been "compatible" with and we had one hell of a time

second, people need to get outa the damn house once in a while. turn the tv OFF and get your asses off the couch. there are far more people to meet in your general area than on here. go to the damn grocery store at 10pm and stroll around. don't be shy, think of something clever to say if you see someone interesting. it works.

I think if people stop concentrating on it so much it just happens...and each of us has someone out there...we just don't know where they are yet...and it depends upon how much effort each is willing to put into it

Grocery store,

Try it at a bar,

i like my victims sober

i want em to remember it

Big Fun,
No dates,

Thats part of what i'm talking about. there some people on here and i wont mention names, but it don't matter what time i come on here to cheak emails. There on the form, some almost 24-7 and i don't want to here how some people work at home or what ever reason there home. There is more to life then being on here every freakin night. I'm eating right now and when i'm done im going to a friends to have a couple drinks.

Im an eternal dreamer for one.

I dont ever give up on anything I want, for another.

Im wayyy to f_ckin cool to spend the rest of my life alone...

so its just a matter of time for me...

but itsssssss sooooooo gonna happen!!!

LMAO .. ((( Pats ))) totally agree

Hmm....

Shadow, I don't really think it's a case of finding someone that you can be " compatible " with.

It's finding someone that you can be compatible with, AND close enough to actually be able to go out on a date with.

I have talked to a few women here who I feel I would be compatible with, but distance is a killer for me because of a couple of factors that rule out any travel right now.

I am one of those who has been here for going on a year now, and I have never been out with someone. Mainly because I have yet to find anyone local ( for me that is within a 3 hour drive ) that has responded to an email or shown any kind of interest. The secondary reason is that I simply didn't come here " looking " for anyone.

This place, for me, was like a few others. I just put a profile up for the hell of it. If someone wound up being interested, cool. If not, no big deal. Before I finally started posting on the forums, my profile just sat there and got practically zero looks, and that was completely fine with me. Recently, the activity has picked up and that's cool too.

I am not actively seeking anyone out. If someone ' clicks ' with me, fantastic. I'll do everything I can ( which is pretty limited right at the moment ) to meet up with that person at some point.

It is a form of socialization. (limited it may be) yet, fulfills a basic need of interaction with others.

It can and does happen that occasionally people from this kind of site actually to put the time and resources into meeting one another....doesn't happen everyday...granted. However, occasionally it does, indeed, happen. I would rather take the chance of meeting a cool woman here and come away with nothing....than to not talk to people on here and come away with less than nothing.

Let's face it. Even if you are talking to someone that you are not compatible with...you still learn. That is a good thing.

What is truly crazy is meeting someone that you just get that crazy good vibe from....got a taste of that tonight....and I liked it!

No way babe...

ive met a gang of cool people here..

met em...had a chitload of fun...

its all good, I think.

Oh Krupa baby....you look so good on top of me...now...you just stay right there.

i hear that! i do work from home and occasionally i'll take a break at different times and log on to blow off some steam. i see some of the same peeps on here CONSTANTLY. day and night. if they took this effort and applied it to REAL life, maybe...just maybe they might meet someone that actually lives in their city!

hmmmmmmmmm........