No, they don't. They are looking for a status symble to make them better than other girls, when if they were already better than other girls they wouldn't even need a purse to begin with.

well i am a double wammy for you and judge people before you get to know them is not a wise choice 1 i am a gamer but i set times for me to game when i am in a relationship 2 i x military what the hell does that have to do with the price of tea in china i tell people i hear trying or wanting to join not to

I'm not talking about playing a game or two, I'm talking about hard core gamers, like they play 36 hour long sessions of WoW or Call of Duty. You want to sit down for an hour or two after work and unwind...I see no issue with that.

cops and ex military have control issues, and I'm not someone who deals well with being controled.

I can't date a man who can't talk.

I can only reply to one-liners so many times.

you know you like to be spanked.

I'm shocked no one has mentioned it yet, but at the top of my "Who Not To Date" list would be the:

Norman Bates Dater - guys with Mommy issues!

I raised my kids, don't need another one; and although I won't tolerate another woman in our relationship, it definitely better not be Mommy!

Major deal breaker for me.

I know men who do the same thing. It's incredibly annoying.

Or, the guy who has to try and fix everything, instead of just listening once in a while when we need him to.

lol ummmmmm i have no control issues just put a collar on my and i will do as you say

That's what they all say.....

I agree, I was engaged when I was young to a man who dropped everything when mommy called also. That was annoying.

Oh yes, "Mr. I'm here to fix you and protect you and 'SAVE' you from yourself"

I'M NOT F*CKING BROKEN...... Go find a damsel in distress who is gonna use you to "fix" her then leave you on your ass so you can continue to be that "nice guy"

I'm ex military.

I'm aware....

Goof, I've bought two purses since 2005....

Lily~ I want to be controlled in one room. Oh hecks no, okay lots of rooms but in one area. Everything else, equal.

The Sociopath:
The charming, says what you want to hear type that has an answer for everything. He is often very good looking and is a great kisser. However, he is a sociopath under all that suave-ness.... and you find this out later... too late.
If it seems to good to be true, it is.

The Dreamer:
The get rich quick schemer who thinks the next big deal is right around the corner. He has business plans for all sorts of start up companies and they will make him rich. This man is impulsive, flighty, and has never actually done anything in pusuit of his dreams. This man is often materialistic and lives beyond his means. He is also lazy.

YES....... I hate those guys... Oh I forgot about the dreamer...I prefer a doer to a dreamer anyday of the week. The dreamer thinks he is going somewhere, the doer IS going somewhere.

This thread just inspired a new game lily, i just made a thread called The Unmatchmaking Game.

The Nice Guy:
This man is a doormat and totally incapable of thinking for himself. All actions are done to please others, but secretly he wants to be recognized for his martyring self serving behaviors and builds resentment against all who do not bend over with praise. This man cares what others think and is usually not well educated or bright. He labels himself and expects others to accept this. He is often selfish and lazy in bed and a poor communicator. He will often go to church weekly, but not pay attention during the service.

Can we add passive agressive to this list of qualifications?

The Moper:
His glass is always half empty and he is stuck in a dead end job he hates. He whines and moans about his co-workers and his boss, especially about the gossip and how unappreciaetd he is. He says he is so tired after work and is so stressed out. He rarely if ever goes out and when he does, only sits quietly. When he does talk, it is to whine or complain. He is sick all the time also, like a malingering malaise.