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Topic: Who not to date
Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 06:40 AM

Oh, and the "spend all my money on purses even though I have 120 of them" woman. Dear Lord women! Do you really need all those damn purses?laugh laugh laugh laugh


No, they don't. They are looking for a status symble to make them better than other girls, when if they were already better than other girls they wouldn't even need a purse to begin with.

southernmike's photo
Tue 10/14/08 06:42 AM

Here's my deal breakers...

Gamers.
Martial Artist.
Cops and ex military, although they are so nice to look at.
40 year old students.

Those are all I can think of right now, I'm sure there's more though.

well i am a double wammy for you and judge people before you get to know them is not a wise choice 1 i am a gamer but i set times for me to game when i am in a relationship 2 i x military what the hell does that have to do with the price of tea in china i tell people i hear trying or wanting to join not to

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 06:47 AM


Here's my deal breakers...

Gamers.
Martial Artist.
Cops and ex military, although they are so nice to look at.
40 year old students.

Those are all I can think of right now, I'm sure there's more though.

well i am a double wammy for you and judge people before you get to know them is not a wise choice 1 i am a gamer but i set times for me to game when i am in a relationship 2 i x military what the hell does that have to do with the price of tea in china i tell people i hear trying or wanting to join not to


I'm not talking about playing a game or two, I'm talking about hard core gamers, like they play 36 hour long sessions of WoW or Call of Duty. You want to sit down for an hour or two after work and unwind...I see no issue with that.

cops and ex military have control issues, and I'm not someone who deals well with being controled.

no photo
Tue 10/14/08 06:51 AM
I can't date a man who can't talk.

I can only reply to one-liners so many times.

Mrtap's photo
Tue 10/14/08 07:02 AM



Here's my deal breakers...

Gamers.
Martial Artist.
Cops and ex military, although they are so nice to look at.
40 year old students.

Those are all I can think of right now, I'm sure there's more though.

well i am a double wammy for you and judge people before you get to know them is not a wise choice 1 i am a gamer but i set times for me to game when i am in a relationship 2 i x military what the hell does that have to do with the price of tea in china i tell people i hear trying or wanting to join not to


I'm not talking about playing a game or two, I'm talking about hard core gamers, like they play 36 hour long sessions of WoW or Call of Duty. You want to sit down for an hour or two after work and unwind...I see no issue with that.

cops and ex military have control issues, and I'm not someone who deals well with being controled.

you know you like to be spanked.bigsmile

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Tue 10/14/08 07:15 AM
Edited by KeepingTheFaith on Tue 10/14/08 07:21 AM
I'm shocked no one has mentioned it yet, but at the top of my "Who Not To Date" list would be the:

Norman Bates Dater - guys with Mommy issues!

I raised my kids, don't need another one; and although I won't tolerate another woman in our relationship, it definitely better not be Mommy!

Major deal breaker for me.


no photo
Tue 10/14/08 07:17 AM

the idk woman





ok allthe last 3 girls i dated were this


you ask them a simple question what do you feel like for dinner? idk

do you want to have kids? idk

do you want to go out? idk


take them for steak they wanted chinesse

start talking about kids? next day they leave you and tell you " you want kids and i dont. i think we should move on"

decide to stay in . next morning why is every night all we do is watch tv have sex then go to bed






make up for flipping mind and help us out idk is not a answer


I know men who do the same thing. It's incredibly annoying.

no photo
Tue 10/14/08 07:18 AM

The "I'm gonna shut down, and veg on my couch cause life is too tough at times and I can't take it" woman. Then, she looks to the guy to make everything right, to figure everything out, to just inform her when things are better. Yeah...love those women. Ummmmmm....it's called a relationship for a reason ya know?

Oh, and the "spend all my money on purses even though I have 120 of them" woman. Dear Lord women! Do you really need all those damn purses?laugh laugh laugh laugh


Or, the guy who has to try and fix everything, instead of just listening once in a while when we need him to.

southernmike's photo
Tue 10/14/08 07:20 AM



Here's my deal breakers...

Gamers.
Martial Artist.
Cops and ex military, although they are so nice to look at.
40 year old students.

Those are all I can think of right now, I'm sure there's more though.

well i am a double wammy for you and judge people before you get to know them is not a wise choice 1 i am a gamer but i set times for me to game when i am in a relationship 2 i x military what the hell does that have to do with the price of tea in china i tell people i hear trying or wanting to join not to


I'm not talking about playing a game or two, I'm talking about hard core gamers, like they play 36 hour long sessions of WoW or Call of Duty. You want to sit down for an hour or two after work and unwind...I see no issue with that.

cops and ex military have control issues, and I'm not someone who deals well with being controled.

lol ummmmmm i have no control issues just put a collar on my and i will do as you say

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:13 AM

lol ummmmmm i have no control issues just put a collar on my and i will do as you say


That's what they all say.....

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:14 AM

I'm shocked no one has mentioned it yet, but at the top of my "Who Not To Date" list would be the:

Norman Bates Dater - guys with Mommy issues!

I raised my kids, don't need another one; and although I won't tolerate another woman in our relationship, it definitely better not be Mommy!

Major deal breaker for me.




I agree, I was engaged when I was young to a man who dropped everything when mommy called also. That was annoying.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:16 AM


The "I'm gonna shut down, and veg on my couch cause life is too tough at times and I can't take it" woman. Then, she looks to the guy to make everything right, to figure everything out, to just inform her when things are better. Yeah...love those women. Ummmmmm....it's called a relationship for a reason ya know?

Oh, and the "spend all my money on purses even though I have 120 of them" woman. Dear Lord women! Do you really need all those damn purses?laugh laugh laugh laugh


Or, the guy who has to try and fix everything, instead of just listening once in a while when we need him to.


Oh yes, "Mr. I'm here to fix you and protect you and 'SAVE' you from yourself"

I'M NOT F*CKING BROKEN...... Go find a damsel in distress who is gonna use you to "fix" her then leave you on your ass so you can continue to be that "nice guy"

beachbum069's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:20 AM

Here's my deal breakers...

Gamers.
Martial Artist.
Cops and ex military, although they are so nice to look at.
40 year old students.

Those are all I can think of right now, I'm sure there's more though.

I'm ex military.sad

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:21 AM


Here's my deal breakers...

Gamers.
Martial Artist.
Cops and ex military, although they are so nice to look at.
40 year old students.

Those are all I can think of right now, I'm sure there's more though.

I'm ex military.sad


I'm aware....:wink:

lilith401's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:25 AM
Goof, I've bought two purses since 2005....

Lily~ I want to be controlled in one room. Oh hecks no, okay lots of rooms but in one area. Everything else, equal.

The Sociopath:
The charming, says what you want to hear type that has an answer for everything. He is often very good looking and is a great kisser. However, he is a sociopath under all that suave-ness.... and you find this out later... too late.
If it seems to good to be true, it is.

The Dreamer:
The get rich quick schemer who thinks the next big deal is right around the corner. He has business plans for all sorts of start up companies and they will make him rich. This man is impulsive, flighty, and has never actually done anything in pusuit of his dreams. This man is often materialistic and lives beyond his means. He is also lazy.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:34 AM
Edited by Lily0923 on Tue 10/14/08 08:35 AM

Goof, I've bought two purses since 2005....

Lily~ I want to be controlled in one room. Oh hecks no, okay lots of rooms but in one area. Everything else, equal.

The Sociopath:
The charming, says what you want to hear type that has an answer for everything. He is often very good looking and is a great kisser. However, he is a sociopath under all that suave-ness.... and you find this out later... too late.
If it seems to good to be true, it is.

The Dreamer:
The get rich quick schemer who thinks the next big deal is right around the corner. He has business plans for all sorts of start up companies and they will make him rich. This man is impulsive, flighty, and has never actually done anything in pusuit of his dreams. This man is often materialistic and lives beyond his means. He is also lazy.


YES....... I hate those guys... Oh I forgot about the dreamer...I prefer a doer to a dreamer anyday of the week. The dreamer thinks he is going somewhere, the doer IS going somewhere.

Dan99's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:36 AM
This thread just inspired a new game lily, i just made a thread called The Unmatchmaking Game.

lilith401's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:39 AM
The Nice Guy:
This man is a doormat and totally incapable of thinking for himself. All actions are done to please others, but secretly he wants to be recognized for his martyring self serving behaviors and builds resentment against all who do not bend over with praise. This man cares what others think and is usually not well educated or bright. He labels himself and expects others to accept this. He is often selfish and lazy in bed and a poor communicator. He will often go to church weekly, but not pay attention during the service.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:46 AM

The Nice Guy:
This man is a doormat and totally incapable of thinking for himself. All actions are done to please others, but secretly he wants to be recognized for his martyring self serving behaviors and builds resentment against all who do not bend over with praise. This man cares what others think and is usually not well educated or bright. He labels himself and expects others to accept this. He is often selfish and lazy in bed and a poor communicator. He will often go to church weekly, but not pay attention during the service.


Can we add passive agressive to this list of qualifications?

lilith401's photo
Tue 10/14/08 08:46 AM
The Moper:
His glass is always half empty and he is stuck in a dead end job he hates. He whines and moans about his co-workers and his boss, especially about the gossip and how unappreciaetd he is. He says he is so tired after work and is so stressed out. He rarely if ever goes out and when he does, only sits quietly. When he does talk, it is to whine or complain. He is sick all the time also, like a malingering malaise.

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