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Topic: which is worse?
CHARISMA Joined Wed 01/03/07 Posts: 109	Mon 10/13/08 01:46 PM
This morning I was listening to a radio talk show, and 1 of the topics were cheating, (of course) But the comment made was that when women cheat they have romantic affairs were as men have flings. Question is which do you think is worse: the affair or the flings? In my opinion flings are multiples, too many in the mix.... but with an affair thats a matter of the heart, which could hurt a hell-of-a lot more.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 10/13/08 01:47 PM
i would say affairs

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 10/13/08 01:48 PM
neither is good

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 10/13/08 01:49 PM
Flings are fun

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Mon 10/13/08 01:50 PM
its all about sex...no matter what you call it or how you try to sugar coat it...

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 10/13/08 01:51 PM
Any type or amount of unfaithfulness is wrong.

Lizexy Joined Wed 09/24/08 Posts: 165	Mon 10/13/08 01:52 PM
oh noooo

CHARISMA Joined Wed 01/03/07 Posts: 109	Mon 10/13/08 01:55 PM
its all about sex...no matter what you call it or how you try to sugar coat it... yes it is all sex, but with that affair that on going, and heart ties... wouldn't you say?

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 10/13/08 01:55 PM
neither is good totally agree...both are bad, really bad

CHARISMA Joined Wed 01/03/07 Posts: 109	Mon 10/13/08 01:57 PM
Flings are fun HA ha ha..... OH YOU!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 10/13/08 01:59 PM
Towel pics usually cause affairs

CHARISMA Joined Wed 01/03/07 Posts: 109	Mon 10/13/08 01:59 PM
neither is good totally agree...both are bad, really bad TRUE! NEITHER IS GOOD. WE WOULD ALL AGREE ON THAT PART, BUT WHICH WOULD BE HARDER TO GET OVER, OR WHICH WOULD YOU PRECEIVE AS WORSE THAN THE ORTHER? There is a slight diff...

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 10/13/08 02:00 PM
I'll take internet datin for 500$ alex,

Ted14621 Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 2173	Mon 10/13/08 02:06 PM
its all about sex...no matter what you call it or how you try to sugar coat it... That's right

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Mon 10/13/08 02:10 PM
To the ones they are cheating on, does it really matter? I will never excuse a partner because it was just sex and meant nothing to him. Cheating is cheating is cheating.

passionart Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 1396	Mon 10/13/08 02:19 PM
Regardless of how it's named, an infidelity is just than. The fact that it has taken a part of someone's heart from the other, is something that quickly needs to be resolved, one way or another!

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Mon 10/13/08 07:10 PM
I'm trying to figure out why there is a difference based on a word used...it's all cheating.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 10/13/08 07:13 PM
What's the standard of measurement? How do you determine what's worse than what? Worse for who? And why?

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Mon 10/13/08 07:17 PM
I believe cheating is cheating..... wether its physical or emotional!!!!

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sat 10/18/08 03:36 PM
If you say that you cheated on me, then I'm going to stand wayyyyyyyyyyy back over here, so that I get a running start before I jump your body, and exercise all those emotions that I don't give a rip about defining or naming because I'm going to make love with you until I pass out from dehydration. That's my first, continuous, and last answer to you wondering if any fling/affair/cheat is going to give me a sucker's achey breaky heart. Did you ever see a dog cut off his biotch because of another dog getting some action? No. It's the opposite. I don't complicate it with a guilt trip.