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Topic: loosing what you just found..
JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 10/13/08 09:38 AM

i know you've heard this story so many times...

met a really nice guys from here... you seem to have that connection that we've all been waiting for.. talked for like a few days, believed that there is something going on that is out of the ordinary, felt all the emotions and shared things and then ...BAM !!!! he disappeared .. how do you deal with that..??? i am really upset.. help please..


Talked for a few days?? That's kinda short. Sometimes a connection happens quickly and things seem fine. Sometimes it takes a while.

What you find out here is that when you least expect it, someone will jump out of the woodwork and you will wind up finding someone when you weren't looking.

Go take a look at the Success Stories thread. You'll see that you shouldn't lose hope.flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 10/13/08 09:42 AM

this happened to me on a LDR thats why i dont do them,what an exspensive "chance" that turned out to be.:smile:


You'll find someone close to you. flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 10/13/08 09:43 AM


Talked for a few days?? That's kinda short. Sometimes a connection happens quickly and things seem fine. Sometimes it takes a while.

What you find out here is that when you least expect it, someone will jump out of the woodwork and you will wind up finding someone when you weren't looking.

Go take a look at the Success Stories thread. You'll see that you shouldn't lose hope.flowerforyou


Now that you have said that I can do your reading for you. You just need to believe that is true for yourself and not just others. flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Mon 10/13/08 10:24 AM



Talked for a few days?? That's kinda short. Sometimes a connection happens quickly and things seem fine. Sometimes it takes a while.

What you find out here is that when you least expect it, someone will jump out of the woodwork and you will wind up finding someone when you weren't looking.

Go take a look at the Success Stories thread. You'll see that you shouldn't lose hope.flowerforyou


Now that you have said that I can do your reading for you. You just need to believe that is true for yourself and not just others. flowerforyou


Yeah, well. I have never been big on being able to follow my own advice...lol

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 10/13/08 10:30 AM
Yeah, most of us are like that. Including me. flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:10 PM
I come to Mingle to get eraped.noway love laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:12 PM

I come to Mingle to get eraped.noway love laugh


and have you gotten eraped yet?

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:13 PM
flowerforyou The more it stays the same, the less it changes.flowerforyou


Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:16 PM


I come to Mingle to get eraped.noway love laugh


and have you gotten eraped yet?


You propositioning me?

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:16 PM



I come to Mingle to get eraped.noway love laugh


and have you gotten eraped yet?


You propositioning me?


If you can wait a few hours. I've been eraping all morning and I'm exhausted.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:20 PM




I come to Mingle to get eraped.noway love laugh


and have you gotten eraped yet?


You propositioning me?


If you can wait a few hours. I've been eraping all morning and I'm exhausted.


That works out just fine. I need to rest my tallywhacker anyways.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 10/13/08 12:21 PM
:banana: Never eat more than you can lift.:banana:


galendgirl's photo
Mon 10/13/08 07:23 PM

I don't know how to deal with it, either. It's happened a couple of times, or when we finally have met, the connection or chemistry isn't there afterall.
Maybe the man THOUGHT he wanted a relationship and then realized further in that he wasn't ready, but it sure would have been nice if he had communicated it with you.


Or maybe YOU get caught in the "what if" idea when you really didn't want a serious relationship in the first place but there is CHEMISTRY! Am afraid this might be the case and it's a little scary...
Keep on with no expectations. From someone who doesn't know AT ALL what they are talking about that's my best advice :)

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