Regarding us ladies?
And Hello and yes I am new.

Nice to meet you all.

Rain, forget the topic. Keep that pic.

The topic? I'll leave that for the chillun.

I am chillin'

Hello and Welcome!!!!

You will have a great time here- just jump right on in and meet people

I really don't find that men avoid the 30-40 age bracket. quite the opposite as a matter of fact. Just relax and give it some time!!!

Greetings, newcomer.

This room is for avoiding youngsters and elders.

Or it's for the tweeners to gather.

Enjoy. Meet your match.

No I know they don"t avoid the age bracket.

What I meant was what do they avoid, in this age bracket.



Sorry Needed to clarify.

And thank you for the warm welcome.
xo Box

LOL

I try to avoid losing my job.

I'm at the low end of the bracket, so the other end may have other things they avoid.

And don't take any of this as judgments on you as a person. It's not it's just what I'm avoiding.

Women who feel so insecure about their features that they won't post a pic (went on a date with one once, won't do it again).

More than three kids. I don't have any, but I'd like to. I wouldn't mind if you have kids, but I know I can't support more than one or two.

I'm no Adonis, but I avoid women who weigh more than I do. There's some leeway, depending on height (equal height = equal weight tolerance). I've worked hard to take off weight the last couple of years. Someone who lets themselves go too far will probably let me slack off as well, and I don't want to lose what I've worked for.

I avoid smokers. A bus might hit either of us tomorrow, but why spend money to do something that you KNOW will shorten the time you have to spend with me?

Party girls. Going out to the bar every once in a while, or for a particular reason (karaoke, pool) is fine, but if you're not having fun unless you're out drunk, you need to find another designated driver.

There's probably more. After all, there's a reason I'm single, right?

Turning the question on its head is just as valid. What are the women avoiding in this age bracket?

For me, I avoid women with kids.

Same here, and I avoid anyone who uses drugs or alcohol. But that goes for EVERY age bracket.

I agree...except than a casual drinker is fine by me. Like...she drinks only a few times a year, instead of every week. And a six pack lasts her a whole week...

Week to week, at home, I drink only soda. When I go out, I MIGHT have a drink or two--but even if I do, I switch to Cokes after two.

Im thinking spandex pants and cottage cheese thighs but I could be wrong here......

I really hate guys who wear those.......

There's a reason I don't wear spandex.

ummmmm

do we still post here if the original poster has de-activated?

LOL

sure It might be informative for someone else!

Hell, I am 50 today, so I am going to avoid this thread.

Getting married again
a loud mouth
someone that is never happy
someone that depends on you for their happiness
someone that blames you for them being unhappy
someone that is a dependent
someone with lots of baggage
someone that love drama
someone that likes to spend their money and yours
someone that uses sex to get their way
someone that doesnt like sex that much
theres more, but i am tired