I already posted my intro in that thread but thought posting a "hello" here might lead to something. I am 32 yo in eastern NC who is looking for a lady to be a friend or more.

I am separated (little hope of getting back together), I am a college professor (music and humanities), have 3 kids under age 6 (live with mom except every other weekend), and love music, movies, working out, and engaging conversations. I also play piano and some guitar, read from now and then (currently reading a book by Neil Gaiman), and have a great sense of humor.

If it sounds like we share common interests, then by all means contact me at chriswrightmusic@yahoo.com (same id on Yahoo IM.)

:-)

you sound very interesting and impressed by your profile

Ahhh....those words, "little hope of getting back together".

what about them?

We ladies would like to see "no chance of getting back together again" before starting a relationship with someone.

I could be reading to much into it, but to me "little hope" means you're still hanging on by a thread. You need to figure out if you have completely let go or not, otherwise you're not going to have much luck here. JMHO

Women want to know there are NO STRINGS or possibility of reconciliation. Men want to know the same thing. It is a no brainier.

I guess I might have a shred of hope, but not really. Thanks for the advice, though. I guess I just want to believe there is hope when there really isn't any. Also, until it's an official divorce, I can't really say I guess.

That's not fair to the women that you date, IMO. Also, you need time to heal.