This is the most Important thing in a lasting relatioship.Now I don't mean telling your wife she doe's look fat in those pants.I mean everything else.You should tell each other what you desire."You can never have what you don't ask for).Some ladies are good at givig you hints,but thats another topic altogether.Tell each other your fantasies,where that magical spot is.(You know what I'm talking about)Some guys don't know,they actually think their doing it right.And some are.Now as far as honesty goes,if you tell someone that ****s getting old,you might be able to save a relationship.If your honest,you don't have to remember a lie.And finally if your honest with your spouse and their honest with you you never have to worry about losing them,or being able to save yourself from losing them.The other things that make up a good relationship are easily explained.What do YOU want?...........................Thanks....Frank

Be careful I started something similar to this earlier
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/171249

uuummm do you wanna get Married or something?

I believe in honesty every dang time I have lied I have gotten caught before the lie was even gone from my lips. I can't remember them also one lie begats another pretty soon that is all you are doing.
Been down that road once when I was younger, too old for it now.Won't waste my time.

dear mr.fantasy play us a tune
somethin to make us all happy

Honesty hurts less than Lying in the long run. Don't fool yourself, your lie WILL be found out and it is always more devastating when it is found out than it would've been if you just lived honestly and with a sense of Honor.

Anything less than a life of honor and compassion is unwise.