Topic: Opinions needed
FireRescueVol's photo
Mon 10/06/08 11:39 AM
I have a friend that has made some pretty bed decisions lately and is turning her back on everyone. She recently posted a comment on the internet about betrayel from her friend that was supposed to be her brides maid. What happened was two weeks before she was to get married in July her fiance told her over the phone to get out. He even went as far as letting another chick that he was friends with move in with the intention of creating a problem. Well she ended up telling lies to all of her friends and family and went behind everyones backs and got back together with this guy and got married by the JP. She even lied to her own mother about why she was taking a day off work. Well the brides maid feels that since she did what she did that my friend should pay her for the plane ticket that was bought and half the money that the brides maid spent on the dress she had to buy. I told my friend that she should look at all the people that she betrayed with her lies and running behind everyones back before she talks about someone else. I believe that the brides maid is right in asking to be paid back for the money she spent. Especially since the only reason she married this guy is because she is pregnant and he has health insurance. What do you think?

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Mon 10/06/08 11:41 AM
I think that you should be more judicious about who you call a "friend". I hope this was helpful. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

DeusExMachina's photo
Mon 10/06/08 11:44 AM
wheres my banjo and a smooth glass of moonshine when i need it.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 10/06/08 11:46 AM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Mon 10/06/08 11:49 AM
i aian't tryin hear that C,


what your man gotta do with me,



Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 10/06/08 11:46 AM
You got a what,

how long have had that problem,


laugh laugh laugh laugh

feralcatlady's photo
Mon 10/06/08 11:49 AM

I have a friend that has made some pretty bed decisions lately and is turning her back on everyone. She recently posted a comment on the internet about betrayel from her friend that was supposed to be her brides maid. What happened was two weeks before she was to get married in July her fiance told her over the phone to get out. He even went as far as letting another chick that he was friends with move in with the intention of creating a problem. Well she ended up telling lies to all of her friends and family and went behind everyones backs and got back together with this guy and got married by the JP. She even lied to her own mother about why she was taking a day off work. Well the brides maid feels that since she did what she did that my friend should pay her for the plane ticket that was bought and half the money that the brides maid spent on the dress she had to buy. I told my friend that she should look at all the people that she betrayed with her lies and running behind everyones back before she talks about someone else. I believe that the brides maid is right in asking to be paid back for the money she spent. Especially since the only reason she married this guy is because she is pregnant and he has health insurance. What do you think?


well if you want what is proper according to Edna Bombeck...lol then sorry brides maid eats it all. But I would also say....run run run as fast as you can from all these people......it's a drama that never ends.

challengingmind's photo
Mon 10/06/08 06:28 PM
wow...thats a lot of drama that you don't need...if she treats her friends like that then wouldn't she treat you the same way?

plk1966's photo
Mon 10/06/08 06:32 PM
That is alot of drama, but why don't they just return the dresses to the stores they bought them at. AS for the plane ticket if it was not refundable then the happy couple should pay half.