I wish I could tell all of you in person how moved I am for your thoughtfull replies to my post(The EYES have it).My wife was the dearest most loving person I ever met.She made me a better person just for knowing her.She also made me a better man.Just knowing there are people on here that offer that kind of friendship and expression makes me feel better about being here.AGAIN Thank All of You!!!!!!.....Frank

And of course...it is a pleasure knowing you...and we hope you decide to make yourself at home...and allow us the chance to share your life

he just lost his wife...and he is thanking us for kindness...there are times when the jokes should be held back

I read your thread before......and by the time I dried my eyes I couldn't post on it, (I'm a sap.....too emotional )I am sorry for your loss.


But I agree with you, just the look in someone's eyes can say so much. I know when I look in Jon's eyes I feel so much love, warmth and support.

Jon, TheCaptain, is also a widower, I am sure if you needed someone to talk to, he would be more than happy to lend you an ear.

I did'nt see your post about the eyes but just
looked it up. Sorry for your lose. There are alot
of nice people here, and then there are just plain azzes. Welcome to the site and I hope you
find several friends in here to talk to.





Whaps a certain party in the back of the head
with bear paw... Behave and be nice.

Saying thank you isn't pity.........it is politeness.....something this site is running low on lately. And posting a thread about losing someone so special and to appreciate that person while they are here isn't pity. We are here to get to know new people, and Frank opened up to people about his wife......

Be nice or don't say anything.

people do need to show more compassion for others.I'm sorry I laughed

If all your going to be is negative,thats all you'll get.I did'nt ask you for anything.In fact I did'nt ask anyone for anything I just wanted to vent and try to share some life experience.If all your tring to do is get my goat,that sh.. just rolls off my shoulder.So give it up man.DONE....

You didn't know what was going on Tina...and it was so sweet of you to apologize Wish others could show more compassion on here....I love our family here...but I guess we can't have it all

Compassionate people understand the risks, and take all woes with a grain of salt, I think. It is the necessary salt of the earth that keeps life running smoothly, and pithy comments are what they are.

Are you glowing today? Is that a new pic, or just one that you hid away for a special time?

All cleaned up now...........

Miss Teddy, Eileena, and Miss Kim, It is so freakin cool to see a friend speak out about a stranger's feelings of hurt.

I have not followed his posts nor the other's , but regardless of truth or false without truly knowing the truth would it not be the best thing to do to just RESPECT the fact that a new person writes he had lost someone he loved.
As opposed to disclaiming it w/o any facts?


Welcome to this site Frank, and I to feel the need to say im sorry for your loss.
We will all read you and make friends with ya.
And through your words here grow to know more about you and your life. As you know us better.

Peace, Love, and Be Real.

I certainly would have laughed if I know someone has been hurt.I know what that is like changes you forever but it won't bring me down forever nothing will.No one will break my spirit or take my dreams

I'm in a happy place right now.People are not going to bring down.Theres plenty of things to look forward to.It's time for me to be happy

{{{{{Terry}}}}}

Thank you Terry....this world is in a big enough mess without having trouble here...this is the one place I know that I can come to to laugh, cry, scream and dream,....and yes....even dance....No One should ever be disrespected in this manner and I am so glad to see everyone stepping forward with love and compassion.....I am so proud of all of you

This is a friendly reminder it is against Forum Rules to attack or belittle anyone for what they post. Until you have been there done that it is best to keep the jokes to yourself.

Before you assume you know what someone else has dealt with in life. Be it a death of a spouse or someone else close. Never assume it is your right to attack them on these threads. I find it highly uncalled for no matter whom it is coming from.

There is a time for one to joke around and this is not one of those moments. It is sad when adults will take pot shots at another over a death of a spouse.

I do hope this never has to happen to you and you feel the wrath that you have chose to leave here.

With that said I have deleted those post. I do hope you take time to think about what you have said.

Thank You
Site Mod
Kristi

Thats what we do with our family here.....

I meant that to follow this post.