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So I've been reading a lot and see a common theme running in the guys posts. It's about not wanting a woman who is only out for their money. Can I get some insight into what this means exactly? Do the women you date ask for money, or do they ask you to buy them things or pay their bills? Or maybe do they just ask a lot of questions about what you do and how much your salary is?
Clue me in here please! |
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Yes OK! |
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This shouldn't really be too hard. Maybe just give some examples of things women did to make you think they were out for your money more than for you as a person. I haven't dated in a very long time until last year and it is hard for me to believe that a woman would take advantage of a man by using them for money, but then I realistically know this does happen.
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i could say that some men are offended by women that make more money then them cuz they know that the woman doesn't have to depend on the man. Even though times have changed, the inner self of men haven't. They want to be the bread winner and to be able to take care of the woman...Not that there aren't gold diggers out there, but there are a lot of us women out there that don't really need a man for their money..
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This shouldn't really be too hard. Maybe just give some examples of things women did to make you think they were out for your money more than for you as a person. I haven't dated in a very long time until last year and it is hard for me to believe that a woman would take advantage of a man by using them for money, but then I realistically know this does happen. lololol...my mom has been married 5 times and all 5 times for money...financial security, health insurance, housing...I've heard this excuse from an ex girlfriend of mine...she wanted a man that would...take care of her...I said take care of yourself!!! I have 2 kids to take care of 
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i could say that some men are offended by women that make more money then them cuz they know that the woman doesn't have to depend on the man. Even though times have changed, the inner self of men haven't. They want to be the bread winner and to be able to take care of the woman...Not that there aren't gold diggers out there, but there are a lot of us women out there that don't really need a man for their money.. Thank you.....I agree. I don't want to date someone who can't provide for himself, but that's not because I need his money. It's a matter of responsibility and work ethic. I just wonder what men think crossing the line is in regards to dating and their money. Is it crossing the line to think they should pay for a date? Or are they more *****ing about women who expect much more than that? |
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lololol...my mom has been married 5 times and all 5 times for money...financial security, health insurance, housing...I've heard this excuse from an ex girlfriend of mine...she wanted a man that would...take care of her...I said take care of yourself!!! I have 2 kids to take care of AHA......so she's more asking you to just support her. ICK. |
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I've heard this excuse from an ex girlfriend of mine...she wanted a man that would...take care of her...I said take care of yourself!!! I have 2 kids to take care of I like your style! Are you available?  Yes, I've dated a few women who had the "entitlement" attitude. Needless to say, those relationships did not last past a few dates. |
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Rambling here.....but what the heck did she think she was gonna do it that plan didn't work out? Find some other man to support her? What a shame. Seems she was lacking in self worth eh?
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my ex ran off with my car.but before that she stole money from me.she always asked for stuff.she got to where she expected money. |
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lololol...my mom has been married 5 times and all 5 times for money...financial security, health insurance, housing...I've heard this excuse from an ex girlfriend of mine...she wanted a man that would...take care of her...I said take care of yourself!!! I have 2 kids to take care of AHA......so she's more asking you to just support her. ICK. Support being pay her electric bill...get married to her so she could be on my issurance plan...right support
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When i am out at the bar i have a hard time letting a guy buy me a drink just cuz so many think they should get something in return. I think that if a guy asks u out they should pay and same vice a versa. But when ur dating there is nothing wrong with going dutch or coming up with some agreement such as if its the girls idea she pays and if its the guys idea he pays.
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 Ive never met a chick that wanted my money. Im not rich anyway so it would be pointless anyways.
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I like your style! Are you available? Yes, I've dated a few women who had the "entitlement" attitude. Needless to say, those relationships did not last past a few dates. Lordy, I must be from the dark ages. I don't think I'm entitled to anything EVER. Even when married it was a partnership. I can't imagine within the first few dates thinking I was entitled to some sort of monetary gain from a man. |
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i'm broke! any takers?
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well my ex ran off with my car.but before that she stole money from me.she always asked for stuff.she got to where she expected money. Good thing she's an ex. Jeesh! |
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I can understand where guys are coming from... yes there are women out there that expect men to 'take care of them'
I have been practically taking care of myself since I was 14, so I don't expect anyone to take care of me. Nor do I expect to take care of a man. For me, a relationship has to be egalitarian... so all responsibilities in and out of the home must be shared! |
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When i am out at the bar i have a hard time letting a guy buy me a drink just cuz so many think they should get something in return. I think that if a guy asks u out they should pay and same vice a versa. But when ur dating there is nothing wrong with going dutch or coming up with some agreement such as if its the girls idea she pays and if its the guys idea he pays. This is something I noticed on the rare occasion I go out with friends to a bar. Some of my girlfriends think it's ok for men to buy them drinks and not at least say thank you. A couple will even flirt with men they aren't interested in just to get a free drink. I always offer to pay if it was my idea. If it was a shared idea I will offer to go dutch or say a sincere thank you if he insists on paying. |
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lololol...my mom has been married 5 times and all 5 times for money...financial security, health insurance, housing...I've heard this excuse from an ex girlfriend of mine...she wanted a man that would...take care of her...I said take care of yourself!!! I have 2 kids to take care of AHA......so she's more asking you to just support her. ICK. Support being pay her electric bill...get married to her so she could be on my issurance plan...right support What a doofus....that chick needs to get a job or something! |
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