Topic: It's All About The Cash!
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Sat 10/04/08 06:15 PM

:banana: Ive never met a chick that wanted my money.:banana: Im not rich anyway so it would be pointless anyways.:laughing:


:tongue: Maybe you'll find some rich ole lady with one foot in the grave and another on a :banana: peel!

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Sat 10/04/08 06:16 PM




lololol...my mom has been married 5 times and all 5 times for money...financial security, health insurance, housing...I've heard this excuse from an ex girlfriend of mine...she wanted a man that would...take care of her...I said take care of yourself!!! I have 2 kids to take care ofrofl rofl rofl


AHA......so she's more asking you to just support her. ICK.

Support being pay her electric bill...get married to her so she could be on my issurance plan...right supportrofl rofl rofl


What a doofus....that chick needs to get a job or something!

Well, shes long gone now...she smoked way to much pot to have a jobrofl rofl rofl

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Sat 10/04/08 06:16 PM

I can understand where guys are coming from... yes there are women out there that expect men to 'take care of them'

I have been practically taking care of myself since I was 14, so I don't expect anyone to take care of me. Nor do I expect to take care of a man.

For me, a relationship has to be egalitarian... so all responsibilities in and out of the home must be shared!


Good Point.....I'm not taking care of a man at this stage in my life either. He's got to be able to support himself. It's a different story if your married 10 years and someone has a health issue or something.....but not supporting someone right out of the gate.

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Sat 10/04/08 06:19 PM

Yessmokin smokin smokin
ummmm I want someone to take care of MEEEE! :tongue:

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Sat 10/04/08 06:20 PM


Yessmokin smokin smokin
ummmm I want someone to take care of MEEEE! :tongue:
i could take of some things. :smile:

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Sat 10/04/08 06:23 PM

Well, shes long gone now...she smoked way to much pot to have a jobrofl rofl rofl


Hey? I think I dated that chick too! huh

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Sat 10/04/08 06:23 PM



Yessmokin smokin smokin
ummmm I want someone to take care of MEEEE! :tongue:
i could take of some things. :smile:
nnnnooooo.....laugh Would that be the BOOBS or the ASS? Cause they are both BIG!!!!laugh spock

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Sat 10/04/08 06:23 PM


When i am out at the bar i have a hard time letting a guy buy me a drink just cuz so many think they should get something in return. I think that if a guy asks u out they should pay and same vice a versa. But when ur dating there is nothing wrong with going dutch or coming up with some agreement such as if its the girls idea she pays and if its the guys idea he pays.


This is something I noticed on the rare occasion I go out with friends to a bar. Some of my girlfriends think it's ok for men to buy them drinks and not at least say thank you. A couple will even flirt with men they aren't interested in just to get a free drink.

I always offer to pay if it was my idea. If it was a shared idea I will offer to go dutch or say a sincere thank you if he insists on paying.


Oh yeah i have friends that will go out with no money and have guys buy them all their drinks. That i so don't agree with...

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Sat 10/04/08 06:27 PM
Both people should put as much money into a relationship as they are able to. If one person earns more than the other, then they should pay for more. I intend to be with my partner forever, and my view is, if i am gonna share my heart and my life with her, then i can share everything else as well.

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Sat 10/04/08 06:27 PM




Yessmokin smokin smokin
ummmm I want someone to take care of MEEEE! :tongue:
i could take of some things. :smile:
nnnnooooo.....laugh Would that be the BOOBS or the ASS? Cause they are both BIG!!!!laugh spock
hehehe im not picky about size. :tongue:

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Sat 10/04/08 06:32 PM

Both people should put as much money into a relationship as they are able to. If one person earns more than the other, then they should pay for more. I intend to be with my partner forever, and my view is, if i am gonna share my heart and my life with her, then i can share everything else as well.


Nicely said Dan.
What about in just a dating scenario though?

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Sat 10/04/08 06:43 PM


Both people should put as much money into a relationship as they are able to. If one person earns more than the other, then they should pay for more. I intend to be with my partner forever, and my view is, if i am gonna share my heart and my life with her, then i can share everything else as well.


Nicely said Dan.
What about in just a dating scenario though?


On a first date i would always be the man and pay personally, but then if i were skint and couldnt really afford it, if she wanted to go out with me enough she should be willing to pay at least half.

For future dates i would at least expect her to offer to pay her way if she was able to, rather than just expecting that i would pay.

But, thats just me. If a woman wants to go out on dates, she shouldnt expect the man to pay for everything and should be ready and willing to put her hand in her pocket.

But if she really cant afford a great deal, she can then put her hand in MY pocket as compensation! lol!!


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Sat 10/04/08 06:45 PM

But if she really cant afford a great deal, she can then put her hand in MY pocket as compensation! lol!!

Being poor is bad enough but having to put her hand in your pocket and getting a little prick from what you keep in there is just adding insult to injury!! lol

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Sat 10/04/08 06:46 PM
Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Sat 10/04/08 06:48 PM

But if she really cant afford a great deal, she can then put her hand in MY pocket as compensation! lol!!

:laughing: Now that's a compromise!

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Sat 10/04/08 06:48 PM


But if she really cant afford a great deal, she can then put her hand in MY pocket as compensation! lol!!

Being poor is bad enough but having to put her hand in your pocket and getting a little prick from what you keep in there is just adding insult to injury!! lol


Yeah but i would have gotten her very drunk by this point!

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Sat 10/04/08 06:50 PM
Let's face it, women need to be very drunk to be attracted to you! lol

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Sat 10/04/08 06:55 PM
Well drunk AND stupid!

talldub's photo
Sat 10/04/08 06:56 PM

Well drunk AND stupid!

That's how you tell they're British women! laugh

Dan99's photo
Sat 10/04/08 06:57 PM
haha! you fkn racist! lol

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Sat 10/04/08 07:02 PM
All you have to do is read some of the profiles of some of the women on here to know that some of them do in fact want money.
If they say " must have a good job" I doubt they mean a job that is good for him. What if he is a janitor but the nicest guy in the world? I am always trying to avoid the comparisons of money making ability, because right now I would lose that battle.