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Topic: keep hearing so much negativity
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Fri 10/03/08 07:00 PM
Edited by itsmetina on Fri 10/03/08 07:00 PM
Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next timeflowers flowers flowers cheer up people!!!

auburngirl's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:01 PM
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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:01 PM

Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next timeflowers flowers flowers cheer up people!!!
:banana: You always cheer me up Tina:banana:

RKISIT's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:04 PM
everyone just needs to get laid,perioddrinker drinker

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:04 PM
keep trying peopleflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

dolphin14's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:04 PM
I just think that the more people get hurt the longer it takes people to get over it and so they are bitter about it. My true belief is that what doesn't break u, makes u stronger and everything happens for a reason. If u learn one thing from a bad relationship then u have grown. People need to smile and laugh more, not enough of that in the world today.laugh

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Fri 10/03/08 07:05 PM
smokin Negativesmokin

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:05 PM
drool I wanna hear more sexualitysmitten

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Fri 10/03/08 07:06 PM
Edited by The_Pete_Man on Fri 10/03/08 07:07 PM
Hey Tina,

Thanks for the encouragement and the refreshingly short pep talk.......it's easy to get caught up in the heartbreak end of it flowerforyou

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:08 PM
flowerforyou

Hey Tina,

Thanks for the encouragement and the refreshingly short pep talk.......it's easy to get caught up in the heartbreak end of it flowerforyou
flowerforyou I'm telling the women are here on this site get to know the ladiesflowerforyou

ledi180's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:08 PM
Sign me up bigsmile

everyone just needs to get laid,perioddrinker drinker

lavos28's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:09 PM
ive met alot of amazing people on here in the last few days so my perception of this website has changed for the better

AtrueOne's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:20 PM

Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next timeflowers flowers flowers cheer up people!!!


It's the negativity that can keep you from finding the one....look at the world around you and start looking at the good things in your life and know that if someone comes along you have so much to share and if they dn't you still have so many wonderful tings around you.

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:29 PM
I only know too well how it sucks to be alone but you can't just give up.Hey maybe the last person the broke your heart will be the last.If you never open up and take a chance then you'll be right where you are now aloneflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Fri 10/03/08 07:46 PM
Just this morning (Friday 3 Oct 2008) a 21-year-old man I met more than a year ago on another site sent me an email soliciting a (repeat) session of physical affection. He's a very affectionate, industrious, handsome, non-drug-abusing fellow...

I know I'm not really his type, though we make good friends who communicate well. The reason I met him in the first place was because his girlfriend (who he truly loved) had broken up with him in a very cruel manner. I spent a good deal of time just talking to him about how bad the whole thing was for him.

I know lots of good (not "nice") men who are ready, willing, and able to give a woman their hearts. They end up talking to me, and sometimes more than talking.

What's up with that sh!t, anyway? I'm not cheating, or helping someone to cheat; I'm helping someone to cope with awful damage that was inflicted BECAUSE he opened his heart to someone else, and let himself love that person and be used by her. He's tough, smart, really good-looking, able to make a living, and available--and he's spending his Friday night asking me what I'm up to.

What is wrong with this picture...? yours in Chaos, Scarlett

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 07:50 PM

Just this morning (Friday 3 Oct 2008) a 21-year-old man I met more than a year ago on another site sent me an email soliciting a (repeat) session of physical affection. He's a very affectionate, industrious, handsome, non-drug-abusing fellow...

I know I'm not really his type, though we make good friends who communicate well. The reason I met him in the first place was because his girlfriend (who he truly loved) had broken up with him in a very cruel manner. I spent a good deal of time just talking to him about how bad the whole thing was for him.

I know lots of good (not "nice") men who are ready, willing, and able to give a woman their hearts. They end up talking to me, and sometimes more than talking.

What's up with that sh!t, anyway? I'm not cheating, or helping someone to cheat; I'm helping someone to cope with awful damage that was inflicted BECAUSE he opened his heart to someone else, and let himself love that person and be used by her. He's tough, smart, really good-looking, able to make a living, and available--and he's spending his Friday night asking me what I'm up to.

What is wrong with this picture...? yours in Chaos, Scarlett
get him to join the site ya never knowflowerforyou

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Fri 10/03/08 07:55 PM
Edited by wacky_yet_grounded on Fri 10/03/08 07:55 PM
Hey I just turned 49 and although I'm a die-hard romantic I am also as goofy as they make 'em but I haven't given up hope!smitten :laughing:

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Fri 10/03/08 08:23 PM
Edited by NURSE2000 on Fri 10/03/08 08:28 PM

Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next timeflowers flowers flowers cheer up people!!!

I think this is a great pep talk. I needed it. I was married to my BFF. After the divorce I Discovered he has Liver Cancer. I tried to get back with him. I thought it was love. But it was more I felt sorry for him and I do love him as a friend but I realized I am not in love with him. After that i finally opened up to another guy who I thought he cared about me. Well I caught him cheating on me..
He now want us to friends. I said friends without benefits. He booked. I am so tired of of being stuck with bad guys.. I know there are good guys out there. I just keep attracking the bad ones.
I am taking a break in the dating scene... All I want is to find some good friends to hang out with. Maybe if I find a few good friends, I will learn to trust again and try the dating thing again..

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Fri 10/03/08 08:28 PM
get him to join the site ya never know


How ironic. :\

itsmetina's photo
Fri 10/03/08 08:29 PM


Do yall really think there are no decent men or women?I really think its just venting.I know alot of people have been hurt but just maybe there's someone out there who won't hurt you the next timeflowers flowers flowers cheer up people!!!

I think this is a great pep talk. I needed it. I was married to my BFF. After the divorce I Discovered he has Liver Cancer. I tried to get back with him. I thought it was love. But it was more I felt sorry for him and I do love him as a friend but I realized I am not in love with him. After that i finally opened up to another guy who I thought he cared about me. Well I caught him cheating on me..
He now want us to friends. I said friends without benefits. He booked. I am so tired of of being stuck with bad guys.. I know there are good guys out there. I just keep attracking the bad ones.
I am taking a break in the dating scene... All I want is to find some good friends to hang out with. Maybe if I find a few good friends, I will learn to trust again and try the dating thing again..
flowerforyou maybe u'll find someone that way friend 1stflowerforyou

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