why it seems so hard to find the ladies my age, (I am 26), that don't just want to party.
the ones who really want to find a person with a real heart they can settle down with...and aren't just money hungry.....???????

You may have to look for someone a little older, the whole bar scene is usually out of some peoples systems in their 30's

It's been out of my system. I want a guy! lol

there all over here...when im done with them i'll send them one by one over to you...ok

darlin it is hard for all ages to find someone that wants to settle down..chin up luv she will come along...until then hang here with the rest of us lonely hearts...

I'd about believe it...my town is most nothing but drinking and drugs with these women....very few are not....and they are pretty much all taken already...lol

No matter what happens, I always keep my head high..no other way to be...

That isn't much of a problem to me...30 is about as old as I can go though...being that I want to be with a person for a few years before we do the kid thing...I want my kids brought up with both parents, and sad to say, in most cases the complications of birth get worse as women get older...or sometimes the kid comes out deformed or some type of retardation...which can happen to anyone at any age...but chances inrease as women get older..

sorry dude can't help ya ....got the same prob..

That is a tall order. I ran out of excitingness...lol... years ago and I'm 26 but yeah, they're hard to find.

yeah, its a tall one, but until I find one, none of the relationships I enter will be taken seriously, in my eyes...maybe that is why I have gone over a year now without being in one...I am not much on the idea of sleeping around just to get laid...to many STD's....

Have you considered talking with women who already have a child? Single mom's might be a bit more interested in the settled lifestyle you are wanting. They already know there is more to life than partying. They may like to party now and then (girls do like to have fun, you know), but also must provide a homelife for their child everyday. Hope you're not discounting single mom's...there are many here who are terrific!

I'm 35, and am dating a 26 year old and her partyind days are behind her. So, they do exist my friend. Just have to find them....or when RKISIT is done with them, he will send them to you....after testing of course.

How do you know that?

The ones who aren't out at bars are home knitting bonnets for their cats...

I go out all the time when I'm single, when I'm in a relationship I'm more than willing to stay home with my sweetie. Now if you're looking for a girl who will give up all of her friends and NEVER go out again, good luck with that.....

No probs here.......Even the teenage chicks at college like me

SINGLE MOMS...welcome as well as non mothers...
Most kids love me...at least my 6 year old 2nd cousin, and 6,4,3, and 2 year old nieces and nephew love me to death...
matter of fact, just the other day, I called my sister, to hear my nephew (kyle) screaming his head off, as many 3 year olds do...my sis asked him if he wanted to talk to me on the phone, and he stopped on the spot and said, "yeah!"

They know its time to play when uncle rich comes over...lol

So, yeah, I am more than open to single moms..

Yeah, I don't quite know if that is a good thing, or a bad thing...lol

Ride it while you can

Oh no...I don't think so...once a woman says she is mine, then its a done deal! I'm locking her in the basement so she can never leave the house...LOL
Definately not...I won't give up my friends so I can't tell her to do that...as long as her friends aren't flirt buddys, or potential cheats...I will walk out if I get that feeling..
as anyone should..
Other then that, she is just as welcome to her friends as I am mine...actually, I like to do most everything with my relationship partner, and include her in my personal life as much as possible