A friend of mine says you know you have a great one when you can remember their kiss. The way it feels, the way it tastes, the way you feel inside just thinking about them kissing you again.
Do you agree? I have had some great kissers who turned out to be total duds, and on the other hand, very nice guys who kissed so badly, I needed a towel.

Damn, if I could just meet a guy who I wanted to kiss.

I had a guy kiss me, openmouth, with no tongue. Does that happen outside Hollywood? I guess it does.

Also there are swordfighters who stick in a pointy tongue and fight you....

The ones who move their heads from side to side every thirty seconds... WTH? Or kiss your nose at the end? Way to ruin it.

There are big thick tongues who ram it in there until you choke...

Then there are the goodies, the ones who tease and use their tongue with thought and meaning and passion and have a style that is theirs but compliments yours...they circle your inner lips, your teeth, suck on your tongue lightly, and I even had a goodie who had a habit of biting my lower lip just a bit at the end of each kiss.

I'm still look for that special someone, that when we kiss time seems to stop.
And when we're in each others arms, nothing around us matters.
When I wake up in the morning, my first thoughts are of her.
If I was to lose her, I would want to die.

That sounds wonderful.
I am still wondering if that exists...

I think it is more like, you know you have a great one when you can't forget the kiss and the details of it.

I can remember the kisses from some guys that were as bad as you say (a friend of mine and I dated the same guy once, before we became friends, and when someone mentions his name, we make a face and wipe our chins---he was a licker!!) But THE right guy, his kisses are the only ones you want for the rest of your life!

Eileen... I hear you. Once I worked at this place where me and one girl found out we dated the same guy, once. One date for each of us. He had a big thick drooly tongue.

A few months later his wife started (we'd dated him in college, this was years later).... OMG the laughs we had. A work cookout was awkward when she found out and threw a hissy fit. And he was there, with his big thick drooly tongue...

I'm keeping my hopes up!

It's alllllll in the kiss ::swoon::

Kissing is nice, but i really dont think it can be used as a way to determine if u have found a 'great one'

It is, however, how warm a person leaves me feeling, that makes me think i have a great one, not by how much they impressed me with their kissing style.

Kissing is sexual, sexual = lust....not a good basis of a judgement of their character and how compatible they will be with u.

Pink, you brought up the actual topic.... ohhh I'd forgotten. I'm so caught up in the wanting to meet a guy I'd like to kiss thing.

So.. you would date a bad kisser??

And you are correct.. kissing does not make a person good or bad.

It's been a long time since I've had one of those kisses that I feel all the way to my toes. It may be equal to lust, but those are soooooooo nice!!

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm, Im remembering it now, Oh my, luckily its who I am with now, so I can look foreward to some more!

Lilith.....the three of us work together and he has been known to be a Cassanova-wanna-be. We aren't the only ones he has been with, so my friend and I like to make him nervous.

We sit in the cafeteria and when any other of his ex's come in, we call them over and say hi. We know he was with them, they don't know he was with us. Most fun was when we had four of together. We sit there and watch him sweat bullets.

OMG, that sounds HYSTERICAL.....

It might not mean he/she is a great catch but sure would make you want to see what else they are great at.

Hummmmmm hey if ya want a good one ya want them good in all aspects.

And when I think about you, I touch myself

Awww thought I had that at one time but then their true self filtered through very disappointed in the end.

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm, oh yea!

What i am saying, is that i have dated guys who had melt in the mouth kisses, but had putrid personalities, and i have dated guys who's kissing styles may not have reflected my own, but over a short time, we fell into sync, if that makes any sense. When u really like someone, together u find ur own style, that u both enjoy. Relationship partners do not come ready made, and ready to be perfect sexually just for u....the sexual side of the relationship is developed, and will always be unique, cos no 2 relationships r the same.