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Topic: What do women want...
msmyka's photo
Wed 10/01/08 02:11 PM

Shared interests vs. time apart...
Yes, it's nice to do things together, but you should have outside interests too (as long as it doesn't involve hitting on other women). I don't want to be joined at the hip constantly. Need to have some "girl time" and think my partner needs some "guy time" too. That way he can hear about how awful his friend's partners are and can appreciate me more (grin).


VERY good point! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:33 PM

BTW guys, a "Nice guys finish last" thread is the kiss of death. DON'T FREAKIN DO IT.




Actually, I saw one guy post on this site a while ago that "Nice guys finish last", only he said it with pride - and he might have added a :wink: and a pitchfork as well. All of a sudden, that sentence took on a whole new meaning for me!

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:40 PM
Blah blah we want this. Blah blah we don't want that. Blah blah we are not at all what we are stereotyped and generalized as. Blah blah blah- prove it.

passionart's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:41 PM
Thank you...

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:43 PM
Tonite in lieu of handing out red roses I will be handing out red flags. Here's one for you, and you, and you, and you, and you. Ha ha ha ha ha ha!

OrangeCat's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:44 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 10/01/08 11:48 PM
I know its fun to vent. But I wouldn't change any of you women. I like all of you just the way you are. You're all intellegent, beautiful, educated, spirited, mannered, and kind. Be. Exist. Be happy. Be positive. Enjoy your lives. They are worth living.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:07 AM
To critique those woe is me/ why can't I find a good woman/ man/ inflatable sheep solicitation of pity thread posters is about as futile as two blind lesbians trying to find each other at a fish market. You're wasting your breath. The reason they can't find a good woman/ man/ inflatable sheep is obvious. Its because they never will because they are never happy and never satisfied with their relationships and many other aspects of their lives. They expect too much. If their lives were perfect and their relationships were perfect- they would be bored. The sooner they realize "LIFE" is not perfect, the sooner their broken coping mechanism in their broken brain will function and make them realize how stupid and pathetic they sound with their solicitations of sympathy and pity.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:15 AM
Beer me nookie, I'm on a roll!

wiley's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:18 AM
For anyone who's interested:

I may or may not actually be fire retardant depending on how much I've had to drink at any given time.

Just so you know...

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:20 AM
drinks

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:24 AM
Edited by longhairbiker on Thu 10/02/08 12:27 AM
And let me tell ya I'd really like to speak what's on my mind to the pathetic woe is me why can't I find a good woman/ man/ inflatable sheep posters. I'd like to tell them "Shut the f*ck up! Go f*ck yourselves you asexual worms! Because with all your crying and whining that's all you're gonna get is yourself! Wake up you worms! Check your expectations!" But that's against the rules here. Just as solicitations of pity/ sympathy are against the rules. As the addage goes.....two wrongs don't make a right.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:32 AM
Buuuuuuurrrrpppp!!! But noone listens to me.

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:33 AM
huh?spock :laughing:

wiley's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:33 AM
Were you saying something? drinks

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:36 AM
didnt you know us bike rider's or only organ donors ? drinks



JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 10/02/08 12:38 AM



Thank you, MsMyka, for thinking of this thread. You are so right.

To add on:

Perfection vs Reality

We aren't looking for perfect. We definitely aren't looking for someone who believes he is God's Gift to Women. A man who believes in the reality of everyday life and is willing to work to keep it is a catch worth keeping.


Unless, of course, reality involves a slim wallet and a tiny apartment...lmao

* ducks *



Is that tiny apartment filled with laughter?


For the most part. Yeah....lol

I don't take many things very seriously. That's not to say I CAN'T be serious. I just find that it's not as much fun when I do...bigsmile

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 10/02/08 01:03 AM
No I don't want to be stereo typed or someone speaking specifics for me but so far they are pretty much hitting the nail on the head.

I would add;

Learn to manage your money; and don't expect me to bail you out.

Respect "US" and you check your family and let me check mine.

Don't make me the Food Police or the Medical Masher. You know when you need to push off the table and go to the doctor; do it. I have enough keeping up with my body.




no photo
Thu 10/02/08 10:19 AM




Thank you, MsMyka, for thinking of this thread. You are so right.

To add on:

Perfection vs Reality

We aren't looking for perfect. We definitely aren't looking for someone who believes he is God's Gift to Women. A man who believes in the reality of everyday life and is willing to work to keep it is a catch worth keeping.


Unless, of course, reality involves a slim wallet and a tiny apartment...lmao

* ducks *



Is that tiny apartment filled with laughter?


For the most part. Yeah....lol

I don't take many things very seriously. That's not to say I CAN'T be serious. I just find that it's not as much fun when I do...bigsmile



I had the big house - filled with anger and criticism, yelling, fists through the wall, doors slammed so hard that pieces went flying.

I'm not searching for a specific size of living quarters. My interest lies in what the atmosphere is in those living quarters.

sammykmas's photo
Fri 10/03/08 06:27 AM
Reality is that it? Then I'd really have to say in reality that women who want a nice guy have NO idea what a nice guy is!
Some really nice guys don't have time to play games,lie,cheat,and all the other etc. I've read on here from what women are looking for or not looking for.
I've got really no time for small talk and I loved the guys statement on another forum that states what do women want his answer is so on the money.
We are clingy,needy,come on to strong and etc. that's why we can't get a conversation even started on here.
I far from the herd that goes over the bridge with all the others.
I spent time on the road in the U.K. backpacking and I don't remember a time when two strangers who had packs on didn't STOP and converse, we took the time to hit a field and break out somethnig to share in food and talk about the road we had come from and how we were. It wasn't a contest it was being a human being. So no matter what you thought is on all this women are just as needy, clingy and etc. because they just sit back and go gee I don't really want anything. Then in REALITY why are you here? I'm really here to converse with a lady who can get past the idea that someone has sent her mail. Oh my God run for the hills please.
Reality is this site is just like every other site on meeting people. I'm sure you've been to the other sites and now you are here. Why is that?
So what is your REALITY?
I think if you really took time to read the profiles we are all here for one reason. Shhh,.....don't tell anyone though, we are all needy or else you would not be here. That's REALITY!

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