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Topic: Why do Guys???
FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 09/30/08 01:58 PM
Isn't it a lot better to find out RIGHT AWAY that someone isn't your type than to have things drag on for weeks, months, or years? I mean, what better indicator could you need that someone is not right for you if communication sours right from the get-go? I had on my headline on the book of matches site for quite awhile that I didn't have the time or inclination to cyber with people. Some found it offensive and antisocial, lol. But like I care..? You have a right to your personal standards, and so do they. Just keep lookin! yours in Chaos, Scarlett Cybering isn't antisocial? I would think it to be more antisocial myself. I guess you want to debate me...? Or that you think I'm stupid? In any case, if you want to start an issue with me, it probably shouldn't be in another person's topic. Actually I was making a point that cyber is in some ways antisocial...nothing against you...hence the emoticons...

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 09/30/08 02:01 PM
Why do guys only like you if you do the sexy, flirty, playful banter thing? But if you're not into it, or you're thinking things are leading to potentially more than that, they bail? Because most Guy's Stimulation starts below their Waist, and then moves up

the_mind_flayer Joined Wed 09/24/08 Posts: 599	Tue 09/30/08 02:03 PM
Why do guys only like you if you do the sexy, flirty, playful banter thing? But if you're not into it, or you're thinking things are leading to potentially more than that, they bail? Because most Guy's Stimulation starts below their Waist, and then moves up Logical.

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Tue 09/30/08 02:03 PM
Isn't it a lot better to find out RIGHT AWAY that someone isn't your type than to have things drag on for weeks, months, or years? I mean, what better indicator could you need that someone is not right for you if communication sours right from the get-go? I had on my headline on the book of matches site for quite awhile that I didn't have the time or inclination to cyber with people. Some found it offensive and antisocial, lol. But like I care..? You have a right to your personal standards, and so do they. Just keep lookin! yours in Chaos, Scarlett people are still trying to have cyber sex???? that s#!t is so ten years ago lol LOLOLOLOLOL

Dredz_Hang_Low Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 796	Tue 09/30/08 02:05 PM
Why do guys only like you if you do the sexy, flirty, playful banter thing? But if you're not into it, or you're thinking things are leading to potentially more than that, they bail? for me i like the sexy banter. as a guy youre never quite sure if a woman likes you on a more than a friend level unless the conversation leads to sex. i know some women are going to take issue with that but really unless you come out and say i like you and are calling the guy alll the time how does a guy know? if i where a woman i would just assume that all guys want to sleep with me. even if you have known some guy for years and he has never made a pass. he would sleep with you in a heartbeat if you made it clear that is what you wanted that said you have to be able to seperate the guys who want more than just sex from the guy who just wants a F-buddy. no clear way to do that . but for me if i take you out, spend money and make elaborate plans or spend a whole day with you and dont really try to move it to a bedroom then im trying to keep you around a while. if we go for burgers and then back to your place.... well. lol i dunno its hard to tell. i myself dont really hide my intentions if all im looking for is sex. the conversation usually gets there as fast as possiable. hope that helps

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Tue 09/30/08 02:05 PM
Why do guys only like you if you do the sexy, flirty, playful banter thing? But if you're not into it, or you're thinking things are leading to potentially more than that, they bail? I don't know what you mean ?

DeniseC86 Joined Tue 09/23/08 Posts: 158	Tue 09/30/08 03:20 PM
I got to admit, I've pulled some of that kind of stuff myself. However, you just have to be up front from the beginning...no games with it. Just say, "Hey! I'm not for any of your sex talk or games, so if that's what your looking for, step off!!! You at least got to buy me dinner first." LOL (kidding)

BigGlenn Joined Thu 11/30/06 Posts: 4877	Tue 09/30/08 03:23 PM
Why do guys only like you if you do the sexy, flirty, playful banter thing? But if you're not into it, or you're thinking things are leading to potentially more than that, they bail? I'm always hearing the ladies complain about being lumped into a group. Not all guys are the same. We have feelings too.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 09/30/08 08:33 PM
Why?......because I can. Lets face it, if I am gonna hang out with someone with no interest in being sexy or flirty....then I am hanging out with one of my guy friends...or my Uncle Becky. Seriously,....why would a fellow want to hang out with a non-flirty, don't want to try to be sexy female (Unless he is a softball coach)?

Dredz_Hang_Low Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 796	Tue 09/30/08 08:45 PM
Why?......because I can. Lets face it, if I am gonna hang out with someone with no interest in being sexy or flirty....then I am hanging out with one of my guy friends...or my Uncle Becky. Seriously,....why would a fellow want to hang out with a non-flirty, don't want to try to be sexy female (Unless he is a softball coach)? ....simply the most brilliant anylisis i have ever read in a forum

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 09/30/08 08:50 PM
Thank GOD!!!! I was wondering if intelligent life exsisted on this planet......grow them dreds brother!!!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Tue 09/30/08 08:54 PM
Why do guys only like you if you do the sexy, flirty, playful banter thing? But if you're not into it, or you're thinking things are leading to potentially more than that, they bail? ...because bailings fun. I gotta bail. Bye.