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Topic: is there such thing as...
7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 10:46 AM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here.

star1972 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2323	Tue 09/30/08 10:47 AM
i like someone who's nice and treats me right and is curtious and polite.

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Tue 09/30/08 10:49 AM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. Don't listen to that bologna...lots of girls like nice guys, honest! Speaking of...doing anything later?

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 10:52 AM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. Don't listen to that bologna...lots of girls like nice guys, honest! Speaking of...doing anything later? not a thing . and im speaking in context of first meeting a girl. like at a bar or a club. maybe its cuz i have trouble getting out of the "just friends" phase.

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Tue 09/30/08 10:54 AM
...being too nice? I was recently told that i was too nice to girls and should be a bit more of a a$shole. help me out here. Don't listen to that bologna...lots of girls like nice guys, honest! Speaking of...doing anything later? not a thing . and im speaking in context of first meeting a girl. like at a bar or a club. maybe its cuz i have trouble getting out of the "just friends" phase. Well, word to the wise...at least from my POV and Star's also...don't be a jerk...you won't hold our attention for more than two seconds!

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Tue 09/30/08 10:55 AM
I don’t think there is a real answer. Some will use your good manner, but the right one will love you for it

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 09/30/08 10:56 AM
Yes, there is. No one likes a pushover.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 10:56 AM
i guess the main point is that nothing is ever easy and there is never a simple answer for anything especially when dealing with girls.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 10:57 AM
Yes, there is. No one likes a pushover. See? Thats what im talking about. my friend vicky told me that i get walked all over.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 09/30/08 10:58 AM
Yes, there is. No one likes a pushover. See? Thats what im talking about. my friend vicky told me that i get walked all over. people will do what you let them get away with. If you let people walk all over you... they will. Don't be a pushover. You don't need to be an azz either tho. Just stand up for yourself.

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Tue 09/30/08 10:59 AM
i guess the main point is that nothing is ever easy and there is never a simple answer for anything especially when dealing with girls. This is true...but also the same with guys also...but I do agree with what Jill said too. To quote Ferris Bueller, "You can't respect someone who kisses your ass" But you also don't want someone who doesn't even care about it...

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Tue 09/30/08 10:59 AM
It’s a guessing game

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Tue 09/30/08 11:00 AM
Yes, there is. No one likes a pushover. See? Thats what im talking about. my friend vicky told me that i get walked all over. people will do what you let them get away with. If you let people walk all over you... they will. Don't be a pushover. You don't need to be an azz either tho. Just stand up for yourself.

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Tue 09/30/08 11:00 AM
Yes, there is. No one likes a pushover. See? Thats what im talking about. my friend vicky told me that i get walked all over. people will do what you let them get away with. If you let people walk all over you... they will. Don't be a pushover. You don't need to be an azz either tho. Just stand up for yourself. well said

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 11:03 AM


RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/30/08 11:05 AM
all i can say is dont be an a$$hole on here ,BBBBBelieve me

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 09/30/08 11:11 AM
uuumm having trouble finding a middle ground??

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 09/30/08 11:13 AM
u could say that

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Tue 09/30/08 11:14 AM
One can never be too nice

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/30/08 11:18 AM Edited by singmesweet on Tue 09/30/08 11:19 AM
Yes, there is. No more nice guy threads, please? That being said, there's no reason to be an a$$hole either.