Topic: why is it wrong?
Jill298's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:17 AM
I got an email from someone asking if I was available for dating... It states right in my profile I am looking for friendship only. So I told him no, I am in a relationship, just looking for friends. He comes back with how it's wrong for me to be on this site if I'm not single... I don't think it's wrong as long as I am not cheating or "keeping one eye open". I enjoy the forums and I have made lots of really great friends on here.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:18 AM
thats why i don't reply

no photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:18 AM
ignore him
i get them alot too
and MY profile is VERY blunt about why i'm here

DragonFlyTat's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:18 AM
I think the same thing. I enjoy the forums and watching and reading what people write or how they express themselves.

Jill298's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:19 AM
My bf also knows that I am on here... he doesn't have a problem with it cause he trusts me.

no photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:19 AM

I got an email from someone asking if I was available for dating... It states right in my profile I am looking for friendship only. So I told him no, I am in a relationship, just looking for friends. He comes back with how it's wrong for me to be on this site if I'm not single... I don't think it's wrong as long as I am not cheating or "keeping one eye open". I enjoy the forums and I have made lots of really great friends on here.


There are some people who can't seem to grasp the idea that not everybody is looking for the same thing here.

I don't know why that is.

But I do know that the site provides various options to designate what you're looking for -- and as long as those options are available, no one should give you a hard time about which one you select.

I would block him. And report him if he bothers you again.


jnbuglady's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:20 AM
I've had that happen too, even tho I have said Im looking for friends only, oh well, I guess they can't read ENGLISH!

Jill298's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:21 AM
Edited by Jill298 on Tue 09/30/08 09:22 AM
I mean for cryin out loud it's not like I deceived him in anyway. I just thought it was rude to come back with "it's wrong that you're here then" lol well excuse me for having a bf that actually likes me to have friends and a life.

Sambo71's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:25 AM
there is nothing wrong with you being on here if you are up front about what you want. He was just pissed he didn't get his way, don't let it bug you. Just be true to yourself.

directandwrite's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:42 AM
Typical chauvanist male! :angry:

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:43 AM
It's not wrong. You're better than the crunchies in an ice cream cake, dear. You must remember there exist folks who don't know about the forums, or understand what they are about...

Just tell him not to hate you because you're beautiful....:tongue:

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:48 AM
Yup you oK I acturally luv the forms on here myself some people are just narrow minded! noway

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Tue 09/30/08 09:50 AM
This is not just a dateing sight either! It's for just making friends men & women! drinker IT'S CALLED MINGLE duh! NOT LET's GO ON A DATE hehehe

Joaverage's photo
Tue 09/30/08 10:08 AM

It's not wrong. You're better than the crunchies in an ice cream cake, dear. You must remember there exist folks who don't know about the forums, or understand what they are about...

Just tell him not to hate you because you're beautiful....:tongue:



Welcome back Lilith You've been missed in the
forums! flowerforyou

Joaverage's photo
Tue 09/30/08 10:09 AM
offtopic


It's not wrong. You're better than the crunchies in an ice cream cake, dear. You must remember there exist folks who don't know about the forums, or understand what they are about...

Just tell him not to hate you because you're beautiful....:tongue:



Welcome back Lilith You've been missed in the
forums! flowerforyou
offtopic Sorry

lilith401's photo
Tue 09/30/08 10:24 AM


It's not wrong. You're better than the crunchies in an ice cream cake, dear. You must remember there exist folks who don't know about the forums, or understand what they are about...

Just tell him not to hate you because you're beautiful....:tongue:



Welcome back Lilith You've been missed in the
forums! flowerforyou


Ohh thank you, my mom came in from CT for a visit.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 09/30/08 10:46 AM
I think my tagline of "Applcations no longer being accepted" sums it up pretty well, and to be honest, women respect that. Even if they do initiate an email first, they always come at me as a friend, or along those lines.

Sad to say, guys just don't read profiles. Most guys don't anyways. Women do...which is why they know Goof is taken.

DeniseC86's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:30 AM
Some people fails to read profiles. But thats not cool to tell someone that they shouldn't be here because their not interested. WOW, he can't be friends with you. But by now, you wouldn't want to be his anymore.