Community > Dating & Relationships

Topic: to do it or not
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/30/08 04:18 PM
Is this a ploy for volunteers to deflower you?

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 09/30/08 04:25 PM
I need someone to deflower me. It grows back right?!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 09/30/08 04:29 PM
I'm going to be honest and say it takes a special girl to appreciate a male virgin at your age.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/30/08 04:32 PM
Hello I am 23 and still a virgin I am wondering if I should just wait for someone I am really attracted to or just have it now so I am not terrible when I find my true love DO NOT get your sexual information from porn. Thats the best advice I can give a young man such as yourself.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 09/30/08 04:34 PM
P.S.: Dont let all the wisecracking get to ya bro. Its an honorable thing to abstain from sex until you meet someone special.

leonjohn Joined Fri 09/26/08 Posts: 16	Tue 09/30/08 04:34 PM
no ploy, just never had the opportunity its not quite by choice believe me. I know its going tobe weird and short lol! And I know I shouldnt be asking strangers for advice but come on who else would I ask damn sure no one I know that would be awkward.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/30/08 04:37 PM
no ploy, just never had the opportunity its not quite by choice believe me. I know its going tobe weird and short lol! And I know I shouldnt be asking strangers for advice but come on who else would I ask damn sure no one I know that would be awkward. You're a good looking guy, go to a bar... IDK, you've waited this long... I'd wait for "the right one" if I were you.

leonjohn Joined Fri 09/26/08 Posts: 16	Tue 09/30/08 04:41 PM
I have been to bars and danced with girls flirted but just to ***** to make the moves or I say something retarded its like I am cursed or something. It drives me nutz I am good at almost everything I have tried except getting laid!!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/30/08 04:42 PM
Try..."let's get a 6 pack to go and f*ck" KIDDING.....

leonjohn Joined Fri 09/26/08 Posts: 16	Tue 09/30/08 04:44 PM
awesome ill remember that. its kinda like nice shoes wanna fuc

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 09/30/08 04:48 PM
miss lily the devirginizer

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 09/30/08 04:49 PM
Try..."let's get a 6 pack to go and f*ck" KIDDING..... Care for a 6 pack?

leonjohn Joined Fri 09/26/08 Posts: 16	Tue 09/30/08 04:49 PM
Ya know this is the first time i let anyone know and I think it taken some of the burden off my back it kinda helps to be able to joke about it.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/30/08 04:51 PM
miss lily the devirginizer I've given mine up 4 or 5 times....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/30/08 04:51 PM
Try..."let's get a 6 pack to go and f*ck" KIDDING..... Care for a 6 pack? I'll send you my answer via email honey....

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Tue 09/30/08 04:52 PM
miss lily the devirginizer I've given mine up 4 or 5 times.... In one night?!!

leonjohn Joined Fri 09/26/08 Posts: 16	Tue 09/30/08 04:53 PM
Thanx to all of you for the great advice some thoughtful and some funny and some both but all appreciated I view the situation in a different light and when time comes to make the decision ill now whats right I just got to let it happen and not fret over it. thanx again

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 09/30/08 04:56 PM
miss lily the devirginizer I've given mine up 4 or 5 times.... In one night?!! No like in the course of 4 years.... hey, I'm shameless. OP I have a friend who is about your age and is a virgin, he's one of the most wonderful people I know...be true to you, and you really have nothing else to worry about.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Tue 09/30/08 04:59 PM
It's like Nike says"Just do it".I mean today is all ya got.

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Tue 09/30/08 05:03 PM
The best advice I could give you is to make sure your FIRST is someone special in your life. If one thing stands true, it's the fact people NEVER forget their first time. If you feel an uncontrolable urge to screw- at least make sure she is good to you and respects you enough to be patient and kind your first time. You don't want to look back and remember a woman that was insignificant and ended up making you feel rotten...