people not emailing back, i find it kinda rude...

hell send a leave me alone message or something

Im sorry- people are very rude nowadays

I always respond even if its just to thank you for writing

Guess i was raised pretty well

Have a great day!

thanx for the good day

i was raised that way as well..

aren't they sending you a "leave me the hell alone" type of message by not replying?

yes in a way, but it is still rude...

i guess it's the silence that kills me

are you talking about people with whom you are conversing

or just people that don't respond to unsolicited emails?

the unsolicited emails..

how are you supposed to get to know some one..

it's all about the first contact.

I don't think it should matter- I get unsolicited emails all the time and I respond to each of them

Even if you aren't interested in someone I believe you should show them enough respect and respond to their contact- They took the time to contact you.

Maybe im just too polite

I get tons of emails from people that I don't reply to... I think it depends on what you say in your email. I don't think it's rude of me to not reply when I didn't ask them to send me a "hey baby nice lips" message in the first place.

Anyone that looks at me, I send a friendly note, I figure I have done the right thing, if they choose not to respond, thats on them!

i second this

and what really ticks me off is when they don't even bother to email me but look me up on yahoo and send me a message on yahoo messenger

i make no attempt to be nasty or sexual in my emails unless i have known the person and the flirting is provoked

Be proud of those lips!! they are spectacular!!!

I get compliments on my eyes and i always just say-Thank you for the compliment- that was very sweet

They usually go away cuz they didn't mean it to be sweet


But I took the time to respond

well at least you respond

Morning, doll!

I just got two interesting mails. One was a cut and paste of his profile. I thanked him for sending me such a touching and personalized message. The other said 'hey how are you'. That one I reminded him this wasn't messenger and suggested he try someone else, as I preferred someone take the time to write me paragraph or at least several personalized punctuated sentences. Sigh. That seems a tall order.

I think I hear people whine and moan about mails all the time. But they never explain what it is they are sending, only that they get no reply. First of all, how do you know the person is still active on the site? Do you want them to reply to say go away? What type of mails are you sending?

i guess it was where you were brought up and how you were brought up.

i'm southern so the hospitality is there

Its only common curtesy to respond in some form!

then what other ways are there to start a first contact by sending a "how is your going" email

from what I've seen after a few years on these sites most women receive a zillion "breaking the ice" emails every day saying "hi sexy" or something as imaginative

if you wanna be noticed you have to stand out and above the crowd of salivating hormone driven males