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Topic: Getting Older
yvettenae Joined Thu 01/24/08 Posts: 3	Sun 09/28/08 07:35 AM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sun 09/28/08 07:36 AM
I am going to be 55 and I have found mine. It really isn't that hard if you know what you are looking for

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 07:40 AM
I'm finally, sloooooooly getting to the point where I just want to be happy WITH MY OWN LIFE. I don't want to keep spending so much mental energy on finding someone. There IS more to life than the "search".

yvettenae Joined Thu 01/24/08 Posts: 3	Sun 09/28/08 07:43 AM
I know what I want and its very simple have a job, know how 2 treat a woman, be honest and respectful really dont think that asking 2 much LOL LOL LOL

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 09/28/08 07:44 AM
I'm finally, sloooooooly getting to the point where I just want to be happy WITH MY OWN LIFE. I don't want to keep spending so much mental energy on finding someone. There IS more to life than the "search". True That! Like dancing in the dark, lol ok,,naked,,,,,lol

beautifulsoul08 Joined Thu 09/18/08 Posts: 3564	Sun 09/28/08 07:44 AM
hey darlin i think its all age groups. because im 20 and its hard to find someone. but like shoes said. im learning to be happy by myself and not wanting to waste time searching. he'll come if hes meant.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 07:45 AM
I think spending sooooooo much time on finding a mate is a big waste of life's time. There's so much to enjoy. If this is our primary focus, we are missing out way too much on the enjoyment's of life. We need to LET it happen, naturally. Like the way it used to be.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 09/28/08 07:50 AM
Stop looking and just live your life. The right people will be there at the right time.

yvettenae Joined Thu 01/24/08 Posts: 3	Sun 09/28/08 07:51 AM
True Dat Ture dat

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 07:52 AM
Stop looking and just live your life. The right people will be there at the right time. So right Ruth. Let's go party and check out some tight bun's.........for fun!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 09/28/08 07:53 AM
Of course it also doesn't hurt to charge a crystal and carry it with you to attract someone.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 09/28/08 07:53 AM
Stop looking and just live your life. The right people will be there at the right time. So right Ruth. Let's go party and check out some tight bun's.........for fun! I am ALWAYS up for that.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 07:54 AM
Stop looking and just live your life. The right people will be there at the right time. So right Ruth. Let's go party and check out some tight bun's.........for fun! I am ALWAYS up for that. I love a tight end.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 09/28/08 07:54 AM
True Dat Ture dat When you least exspect it,love will find you... Good luck.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 09/28/08 07:55 AM
Stop looking and just live your life. The right people will be there at the right time. So right Ruth. Let's go party and check out some tight bun's.........for fun! I am ALWAYS up for that. I love a tight end. Sweet.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 07:55 AM
True Dat Ture dat When you least exspect it,love will find you... Good luck. Yeah, when you're out having a good time being yourself.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 09/28/08 08:03 AM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. I LOVE being older. I date younger is all. LOL Never date guys my age. But to each his own eh? And it's not all about sex either. I've found more guys than I can tell you that would love to be in a relationship. I'm the one that's hesitant, not them. Just sayin'

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 09/28/08 08:05 AM
I think spending sooooooo much time on finding a mate is a big waste of life's time. There's so much to enjoy. If this is our primary focus, we are missing out way too much on the enjoyment's of life. We need to LET it happen, naturally. Like the way it used to be. exactly .. and I enjoy my kids so much that I don't really want the energy spent on a guy all the time. Life is fantastic. Lived one day at a time and having a full life without having to have a S.O. It's great yes, but so is every other aspect of life.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 08:07 AM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. I LOVE being older. I date younger is all. LOL Never date guys my age. But to each his own eh? And it's not all about sex either. I've found more guys than I can tell you that would love to be in a relationship. I'm the one that's hesitant, not them. Just sayin' Judy, what age group are these guy's in? I want to know what sector to check out.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 09/28/08 08:08 AM
I don't know about that theory of keeping your head out of the search and someone coming along when you least expect it. I kept away from looking for a mate for over 10 years and, I'll be darned, nothing happened!!!