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Topic: Getting Older
RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 09/28/08 08:08 AM
too much estrogen in here

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 09/28/08 08:09 AM
too much estrogen in here You like it.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 08:09 AM
too much estrogen in here Nooooooo, you have to stay. We need your input!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 08:11 AM
too much estrogen in here You like it. Hey Ruth, it's Sunday. Let's tackle em!!!!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sun 09/28/08 08:12 AM
too much estrogen in here You like it. Hey Ruth, it's Sunday. Let's tackle em!!!!! I'll go left. You go right.

Joaverage Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 344	Sun 09/28/08 08:13 AM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. [/ I LOVE being older. I date younger is all. LOL Never date guys my age. But to each his own eh? And it's not all about sex either. I've found more guys than I can tell you that would love to be in a relationship. I'm the one that's hesitant, not them. Just sayin' Exactly how I feel. I date younger also.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 09/28/08 08:14 AM
well you ladies pretty much covered what i would of said anyway so i dont want to seem repetitive,so i dont want to seem repetitive

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 08:15 AM
well you ladies pretty much covered what i would of said anyway so i dont want to seem repetitive,so i dont want to seem repetitive

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 09/28/08 08:16 AM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. I LOVE being older. I date younger is all. LOL Never date guys my age. But to each his own eh? And it's not all about sex either. I've found more guys than I can tell you that would love to be in a relationship. I'm the one that's hesitant, not them. Just sayin' Judy, what age group are these guy's in? I want to know what sector to check out. well one is 30 another 32, another 38 ... just a random sampling ..

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 09/28/08 08:17 AM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. I LOVE being older. I date younger is all. LOL Never date guys my age. But to each his own eh? And it's not all about sex either. I've found more guys than I can tell you that would love to be in a relationship. I'm the one that's hesitant, not them. Just sayin' Judy, what age group are these guy's in? I want to know what sector to check out. well one is 30 another 32, another 38 ... just a random sampling .. Thank youuuuuuuuu! Now I know where to look.

passionart Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 1396	Sun 09/28/08 08:43 AM
I fully understand what you're saying baby! As far as finding a TRUE relationship, the pickns are slim. It's easier to meet ms rightna, than a lady interested with any substance!!! Wish you well for what you seek lady.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 09/28/08 09:04 AM
I'm completely comfortable being single!!

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Sun 09/28/08 09:06 AM
I am not getting older just a whole hell of a lot better.........Age has nothing to do with it...it's the frame of mind and how you feel about you that matters.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 09/28/08 05:21 PM
I'm completely comfortable being single!! Thank you! 48 and single 17 years and I've just gotten better, IMHO ...of course, Murphy's Law could strike at any time and you know what happens when you aren't looking...

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Sun 09/28/08 05:37 PM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. Men wanting Sex isnt going to change with Age. They may want it less at times, but they are going to want it. The Men that i know in their 40's, or ones that are out of marrages and long relationships, are very afraid to invest again. Most of the time Woman classify them as being Bitter. Some are, but some have too work so hard to get back on their feet, and learn who, and what they want out of life, it makes them very cautious. It doesnt help that their are more Woman now a days that are willing too have Sex without a commitment. It takes time for some Men too get over the Fear, but many are still using the saying,Why buy the Cow, when your getting the Milk for Free But please trust that their are pleanty of Men that are looking for that Special Someone

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 09/28/08 05:46 PM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. Men wanting Sex isnt going to change with Age. They may want it less at times, but they are going to want it. The Men that i know in their 40's, or ones that are out of marrages and long relationships, are very afraid to invest again. Most of the time Woman classify them as being Bitter. Some are, but some have too work so hard to get back on their feet, and learn who, and what they want out of life, it makes them very cautious. It doesnt help that their are more Woman now a days that are willing too have Sex without a commitment. It takes time for some Men too get over the Fear, but many are still using the saying,Why buy the Cow, when your getting the Milk for Free But please trust that their are pleanty of Men that are looking for that Special Someone Nicely put Brian. Excepting in my case, my ex made out like a bandit. He's a disabled Vet, ended up being bumped from 60% to 100% AFTER the divorce was final. Also reaped SSI. Can't work anymore due to PTSD (lucky ducky) I go to work every day, raised all 4 of 5 kids alone, while he was checked out on pot and the emotional dysfunction. He was able to buy a house out in the middle of nowhere for zilch, while I had to live in one of the higher middle class neighborhoods so I could keep my kids in the schools they needed to be in. Needless to say, I lease. He owns. He didn't lose anything but respect for a long time from the children. He has since pulled it together. So ya .. the guy doesn't always pay the biggest price for divorce babe. Oh did I mention he's remarried? LMFAO. Altho I don't envy the woman. She is sweet but they are both "older thinking" and I live on the young edge. Ya .. in the end I guess I'm STILL the winner.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Sun 09/28/08 05:49 PM Edited by briancarr on Sun 09/28/08 05:50 PM
I think the older u get the harder it is 2 find ur mate, I'm 47 its been almost 2 years now that I've been single, n at this stage n my life yes I want a committed relationship, I dont do one nighters anymore, and yes most man even my age is just looking 4 sex, can u beleive that. Men wanting Sex isnt going to change with Age. They may want it less at times, but they are going to want it. The Men that i know in their 40's, or ones that are out of marrages and long relationships, are very afraid to invest again. Most of the time Woman classify them as being Bitter. Some are, but some have too work so hard to get back on their feet, and learn who, and what they want out of life, it makes them very cautious. It doesnt help that their are more Woman now a days that are willing too have Sex without a commitment. It takes time for some Men too get over the Fear, but many are still using the saying,Why buy the Cow, when your getting the Milk for Free But please trust that their are pleanty of Men that are looking for that Special Someone Nicely put Brian. Excepting in my case, my ex made out like a bandit. He's a disabled Vet, ended up being bumped from 60% to 100% AFTER the divorce was final. Also reaped SSI. Can't work anymore due to PTSD (lucky ducky) I go to work every day, raised all 4 of 5 kids alone, while he was checked out on pot and the emotional dysfunction. He was able to buy a house out in the middle of nowhere for zilch, while I had to live in one of the higher middle class neighborhoods so I could keep my kids in the schools they needed to be in. Needless to say, I lease. He owns. He didn't lose anything but respect for a long time from the children. He has since pulled it together. So ya .. the guy doesn't always pay the biggest price for divorce babe. Oh did I mention he's remarried? LMFAO. Altho I don't envy the woman. She is sweet but they are both "older thinking" and I live on the young edge. Ya .. in the end I guess I'm STILL the winner. I think you kind of just explained how you dodged a Bullet. Nice story though

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 09/28/08 05:51 PM