My boy friend is always sooooo upset. I think he's stressed about his
job, or family, or maybe its me...but he doens't talk to me. I know I
have my "girl system," but do guys? And if not, should they have one?

With some guys its stress that keeps you going I get like that sometimes
its like and adrinaline rush.......

I DONT STRESS,I AM ALWAYS HAPPPY LOL

ok... but should guys have like a let-out zone? Girls have emails and
hotlines... but dudes on the other hand-- how will they get it out if
they need to vent about Anything

JERK IT OUT FCUK IT OUT LOL

they go out with the guys and drink and *****. that or they go beat
something up.LOL

when im stressed dont talk to me, dont ask questions, dont try to feed
me, dont try to cheer me up, just leave me alone

WTF YOU NEED TO GO HOME THEN.

He should be able to talk to you, if he cant something maybe wrong, I
only say this from experiance, and he may not even know him self whats
wrong.

I work 16-18hours /day some times more, I'm always stressed, but as
soon as I get Home I leave work stuff at work. I turn my cellphone
off... and I don't get bother by my family at home because they know how
hard I work.

but he should also considerer that fact that you need his attention
sometimes.

Try talking to him about it... that's always the best option.

my ex got stressed out cause he was getting fat.... but still wanted me
to cook all the good foods for him and eat seconds..but hey my fault
right?

Do you guys spend every minute together?
Some guys , Even though they don't complain need to get out with the
guys.

Is he a "macho" kind of guy?
Men are like pack dogs. They need to get rid of energy with their own
kind.

Encourage him to go out with the fellas and blow off some steam. Chances
are he needs to act like a juevinille with the boys. If it goes well,
tell him to plan on a night out every couple of weeks or so.
In thirteen years of marriage I might have gone out with the boys 6 or 8
times. I think I harbored alot of resentment and didn't even know it
until I started going out after my divorce.


I hope that helps...

Hey Mo are u cheating on him LOL

good question

OK LADIES THERE ARE TWO WAYS TO KEEP YOUR MAN HAPPY 1-KEEP
HIS BELLY FULL 2-KEEP HIS
BALLS EMPTY IF YOUR MAN IS NOT
HAPPY REFER TO 1&2

A team player is what makes me happen if she is looking out for our best
interest I'm happy.

Good one Althepal

One big difference between men and women is

Men --- process there thoughts quietly. Men need quiet time to absorb
and figure stuff out. If a guy has something heavy on his mind he might
need 2 or 3 days in the cave. Once he has it worked out he will come out
and he will tell you about the problem and the solution usually in 2
sentences or less.


Women -- process things by talking them out. When a woman has something
on her mind she will talk and talk and talk until she works it out.

This a the biggest cause of communication problems between men and
women. A man talks when he is ready to get to the point.
A woman talks to find the point.