if someone gave you their password to their online dating account would you believe them..he says he has nothing to hide...I am soooo confused...

nope, wouldn't believe them...had that line thrown at me once before too and I so found out differently.

by someone on here..and can you ahhhh let me in on who it was...

well yes and no by someone on here....hard to explain. Met him off another site then I got him to sign up on here but he never comes to this site anymore. He never really got into JSH/Mingle.

This happened to someone else about 2 days ago. I think that part of the idea is the guy thinks, I'll do this, to show the person how much she will trust him.

If she believe him and DON'T check it, it shows him that he can probably manipulate the person, either just be a player and using her or being able to control her.

If she actually checks it, she isn't the type of girl he can have that type of control over her so she isn't worth the time.

I mean it could be as simple as, "Is she the type of person to go into my stuff or spy on me?" But really, I don't think so. I think it is something much darker than that.