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Topic: why do girls always think your a player
viraloneontheout Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2333	Thu 09/25/08 05:47 PM
I have this girl im after she is absolutely amazing and beautiful evidently i say all the right things and am what she wants. However she thinks i might just have a lot of game how do you prove that your absolutely for real? I know all my friends truly know that i am how do i show her i am?

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 09/25/08 05:49 PM Edited by shoesmonkey on Thu 09/25/08 05:50 PM
Be consistant and reliable. If you're where you say you're going to be when you say you will be, etc., over time she'll come to trust you. One more thing, NO GAMES WITH YOUR CELL PHONE.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/25/08 05:50 PM
just be yourself and see what time does, be patient,if she disses then its her f!ck up

AtrueOne Joined Fri 04/04/08 Posts: 1258	Thu 09/25/08 05:50 PM
Show her by your actions, patience, and honesty on a day to day basis. Eventually she'll see what your friends see

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 09/25/08 05:51 PM
Be consistant and reliable. If you're where you say you're going to be when you say you will be, etc., over time she'll come to trust you. One more thing, NO GAMES WITH YOUR CELL PHONE. Yep...show her it's more than a game.

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Thu 09/25/08 05:52 PM
hmmm...i can only guess why she might think u r a player, because u didn't really say why...but maybe if u r overly commenting on her body, or physical features...or sex, that might do it.

Scarlett_156 Joined Wed 09/17/08 Posts: 469	Thu 09/25/08 05:52 PM
There's no way to "show" anything about how real you are; you have to BE real. It always takes time. If you try to convince someone of something about your character, it always seems false. If you keep pushing, you'll fail. I suggest that you back off and instead of telling her that you are for real, SHOW her that you are for real by being consistent over a period of time. There's no quick fix for a problem like yours. I hope this was helpful. Good luck! yours in Chaos, Scarlett

viraloneontheout Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2333	Thu 09/25/08 05:53 PM
i already do all of this

Scarlett_156 Joined Wed 09/17/08 Posts: 469	Thu 09/25/08 05:58 PM
Then eventually she will accept that you are for real, lol. ;)

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 09/25/08 06:02 PM
i already do all of this You know, if you come on too strong, red flag's allway's appear.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/25/08 06:05 PM
im sorry i dont have estrogen

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Thu 09/25/08 06:06 PM
Either you have to keep jumping thru hoops, and she will come around, or see may have other options, and might not be ready too commit yet. Just dont get so Blind, or Deaf that you get Wacked by suprise

viraloneontheout Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2333	Thu 09/25/08 06:06 PM
i already do all of this You know, if you come on too strong, red flag's allway's appear. if there is one thing i learned from my daughter is that life is too short i live life one day at a time 110 percent any less than what is life itself but a blur i know most people dont live this way and im a different breed of person i live life to the fullest otherwise you may regret the time you have on this earth

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Thu 09/25/08 06:08 PM
i already do all of this You know, if you come on too strong, red flag's allway's appear. if there is one thing i learned from my daughter is that life is too short i live life one day at a time 110 percent any less than what is life itself but a blur i know most people dont live this way and im a different breed of person i live life to the fullest otherwise you may regret the time you have on this earth that's a good way to live

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Thu 09/25/08 06:08 PM
im sorry i dont have estrogen few

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 09/25/08 06:09 PM
guitar hero rocks (but i cant play worth a sh!t)

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Thu 09/25/08 06:13 PM
guitar hero rocks (but i cant play worth a sh!t) I LOVE guitar hero...lol

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 09/25/08 06:13 PM Edited by RKISIT on Thu 09/25/08 06:14 PM
im sorry i dont have estrogen few i just perved you and nice,but you live so far what a shocker and your involved another shocker

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 09/25/08 06:14 PM
guitar hero rocks (but i cant play worth a sh!t) yeah, my 9 year old grandson plays SIX on expert...I'm still trying to play it on Medium...lol

viraloneontheout Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2333	Thu 09/25/08 06:16 PM Edited by viraloneontheout on Thu 09/25/08 06:17 PM
wow sorry to be blunt but i didnt realize this had any thing to do with guitar hero or rock band however thank you for your advice to those who gave it