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Topic: When to say those three
A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Thu 09/25/08 05:33 PM
YOU are FIRED!!!!!!!!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Thu 09/25/08 05:34 PM
YOU are FIRED!!!!!!!! NOPE!!! I QUIT!!!

enderra Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1719	Thu 09/25/08 05:34 PM
Well, I've blown that option. I guess I am afraid cause he keep mentioning the 27 years of marriage he endured. dreaded words? I feel it but I don't want to ruin a good thing. Has anyone else had this experience? Those three words are only a part of what goes into a so called good thing. They can become a issue that will put a strain on a relationship. Whats next?, holding back a Orgasm, because you dont want Him too think he's doing to good of a job Then i guess you have too question what your really feeling, and why? Holding on to what you think is a good thing with closed eyes, can be shocking to the system when you finally open them. Why invest so much time in feelings when you do understand them [/quote Cause I Love Him

enderra Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1719	Thu 09/25/08 05:36 PM
dreaded words? I feel it but I don't want to ruin a good thing. Has anyone else had this experience? I've been where you are. It's tough to hang up knowing you want to say more but not wanting to be first. What I did was just wait it out, but I didn't want to say it first. As it turns out...we were both dancing around the words, feeling them, and ended up saying them together. Good luck! Thanks I hope that will happen with us

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Thu 09/25/08 05:39 PM
Well, I've blown that option. I guess I am afraid cause he keep mentioning the 27 years of marriage he endured. dreaded words? I feel it but I don't want to ruin a good thing. Has anyone else had this experience? Those three words are only a part of what goes into a so called good thing. They can become a issue that will put a strain on a relationship. Whats next?, holding back a Orgasm, because you dont want Him too think he's doing to good of a job Then i guess you have too question what your really feeling, and why? Holding on to what you think is a good thing with closed eyes, can be shocking to the system when you finally open them. Why invest so much time in feelings when you do understand them [/quote Cause I Love Him But your Love is Limited, Its not Unconditional. You have to deal with the real issues you have. You are not letting something go. You relationship is already doomed, if you just allow yourself too feel, without understanding

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 09/25/08 05:40 PM
Well clearly there are MANY equally terrifying combinations of 3 words out there...who knew???

Roco Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 1165	Thu 09/25/08 10:29 PM
dreaded words? I feel it but I don't want to ruin a good thing. Has anyone else had this experience? to answer your question...no, I have never had that experience...but this is coming from a guy that has only once said it..."don't want to ruin a good thing."..what good thing are you going to ruin...chance at a relationship? current relationship..i.e. bf/gf already? friendship? If you have only been with him for a little while and he is not your current bf, then I wouldn't recommend saying it. If you're already with each other..than go ahead, its not going to matter...so to speak. If it is a friendship that is at risk, then I it depends on your level of risk...there is a possibility that the guy might take off once he hears that from you if he considers you a friend. Roco