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Topic: If you knew that things were
mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:35 AM
not right in your relationship how long would you stay in it to see if it would get better?

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:37 AM
Edited by Puffins1958 on Wed 09/24/08 09:37 AM
It all depends on whether or not you like the person enough to TRY. If you don't think it's going to work, then it's time to move on.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:37 AM
Im boucnin like a bad check,

oldsage's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:38 AM
I tried for 14 yrs, before I left.

redhead44613's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:39 AM

Im boucnin like a bad check,
drinker

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:39 AM

Im boucnin like a bad check,

laugh laugh

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:39 AM

It all depends on whether or not you like the person enough to TRY. If you don't think it's going to work, then it's time to move on.

so true

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:40 AM

I tried for 14 yrs, before I left.

I am sorry that it didnt work out for youflowerforyou

no photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:41 AM
My relationships are pretty much on a 90-day timer....

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:42 AM

My relationships are pretty much on a 90-day timer....

frown

galendgirl's photo
Thu 09/25/08 05:54 PM
In my past life (translation: when I was married) a long, long, long (do you get the idea?) time...

Today? If things weren't right, I doubt I'd stay very long... I'm not playing games and I'm finally fully aware that I can't fix things by myself. It takes 2 people giving 100% and if they aren't both interested in doing that...well, I'd probably have to be gone.

galendgirl's photo
Thu 09/25/08 05:55 PM

It all depends on whether or not you like the person enough to TRY. If you don't think it's going to work, then it's time to move on.


It still takes both people, no matter how much you want it to work...

no photo
Thu 09/25/08 05:55 PM
until the voodoo spell wears off, then Im gone...

galendgirl's photo
Thu 09/25/08 05:59 PM

until the voodoo spell wears off, then Im gone...


Teach me! Teach me! I could use some good voodoo from time to time!

no photo
Fri 09/26/08 10:11 AM
depends on what is not right????? Can it be fixed? Does it require many years of therapy?????

TheShadow's photo
Fri 09/26/08 12:13 PM

not right in your relationship how long would you stay in it to see if it would get better?


Id give it 3 months to see if i couls work it out. If notohwell

no photo
Fri 09/26/08 12:16 PM

I tried for 14 yrs, before I left.


You can never ever say you didn't give it your all then. I too tried for a lot of years.....but sometimes there is just no fixing it. I regret not having some of those years of my life back really, but I do feel that at least I gave it my all. My biggest motivator was my kids. I'll always feel bad about not being able to keep them in a 2 parent home.

no photo
Fri 09/26/08 12:18 PM

not right in your relationship how long would you stay in it to see if it would get better?


people will stay in dysfunctional relationships for their entire lives just because it is the known and as dysfunctional as it is, it's comfortable and not as scary as going off on your own

bad_girl's photo
Fri 09/26/08 12:43 PM
Depends what is wrong, if it can be fixed I would stay and at least try to fix them

Bry395's photo
Fri 09/26/08 01:16 PM
It depends on what needed "fixing" if it was commuinication and he was willing, yes I'd stay to if it would work. If he shows signs of being abusive, jealous, possessive or is into drugs.....I'm OUTTA there!spock

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