Topic: What do you think
Dovetail_Stormrider's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:31 AM
Please check out my profile and tell me what you think. People tell me I seem too high maintenance and also that I kind of threaten people too much by my profile, that I'm too harsh. Any feedback is good feedback. Do you think I am high maintenance, or too over the top mean, ect ect ect, or any other thoughts?

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Wed 09/24/08 09:33 AM
Welcome and have a blast!bigsmile flowerforyou

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:35 AM
welcome to single and ready to mingle,

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 09/24/08 09:43 AM
You're very beautiful. flowerforyou I didn't read all the way through your profile....it's very long and perhaps a bit off-putting. JMO. Welcome to the site. happy

Roco's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:56 PM
..too afraid too look at your site..based on picture/comment..very powerful

Roco

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 10/01/08 12:49 AM
Hmmm....

Well...for what it's worth...I'll throw my two cents ( probably not actually WORTH 2 cents ) into the mix here.

I read what you wrote ( yes, all of it ) and I don't see anything really " threatening " in there.

What I do see is someone who knows what she will and won't deal with. Some of those things may seem to be a bit off putting to someone who isn't mature enough to handle a woman with a strong will.

The only thing that I , personally, see that may be cause for concern is that you say that you are a " drifter ".

To me that says, no matter what you explain later in your profile, that a guy really shouldn't expect you to be around for very long no matter what he does. It sounds like you are either easily bored, or you grasp at excuses to end things, which goes back to the things you state that you won't deal with.

On the positive side, you are very well spoken and quite pretty. That combination will help you find what you are looking for.flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 10/01/08 01:53 AM
You sound really tired and frusterated and angry for no older than you are and what all you have going for you; certainly intelligence, looks, and probably business savy. I think you are assumeing that you are smarter or have higer goals than some of the people you will meet from the people you have met but the telling part is you picked the later. Maybe stepping back, resting, and slowing down on the pace of relationships will serve you better. There are some very good people here that I think you could find freindship and perspective with and maybe even a quality relationship. Good luck.