Topic: please help me
Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:06 PM



I still think they should have to wear signs


then the same applies to the good women....they should wear signs


I wear a sign....Cant read it....it backwards when I look in the mirror at my forhead. DETNAW SKREJ!!!slaphead


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Totage's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:06 PM

where have all the good guys gone?


Doggy heaven

cuppy59's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:09 PM
Edited by cuppy59 on Sat 09/20/08 09:10 PM

why do all of you women keep asking this question...i have heard it hundreds of times

maybe you are all looking at the wrong guys or in the wrong places...because i know several really good guys that just keep getting passed up

maybe you should open your eyes and your standards


Had to comment about this one on standards. Let me ask you this question? Have you ever seen a woman write an essay and describe in visual detail the man she is looking for. I mean really, hun. I have seen so many descriptions and it really bothers me to read them.

Guys are visual. Not a whole lot to it.

I dated a short guy, a guy that was 300+ lbs. Younger and older. Its not a matter of opening our eyes, its a matter of men opening their hearts. Woman are emotional, I know this and we attach very easily, but with all the scamming that goes on all the time in these dating sites, men and women have to screen each other like we are being interviewed for a job in the white house...

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:11 PM


why do all of you women keep asking this question...i have heard it hundreds of times

maybe you are all looking at the wrong guys or in the wrong places...because i know several really good guys that just keep getting passed up

maybe you should open your eyes and your standards


Had to comment about this one on standards. Let me ask you this question? Have you ever seen a woman write an essay and describe in visual detail the man she is looking for. I mean really, hun. I have seen so many descriptions and it really makes me sick to read them.

Guys are visual. Not a whole lot to it.

I dated a short guy, a guy that was 300+ lbs. Younger and older. Its not a matter of opening our eyes, its a matter of men opening their hearts. Woman are emotional, I know this and we attach very easily, but with all the scamming that goes on all the time in these dating sites, men and women have to screen each other like we are being interviewed for a job in the white house...


i totally understand this...but from what i have found is that women tend to react to the men that are not always the "good guy" and overlook the guys that really would treat them right just because they aren't the most suave or best looking

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:12 PM
it works both ways...both sexes do it

cuppy59's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:29 PM

it works both ways...both sexes do it


Agreed!!! Now smile, your on candid camera...lol

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:31 PM
lol....you got me

cuppy59's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:35 PM

lol....you got me


I have you as my backround pic now...hehehehehe..Every time a young pretty thang comes along...Ill steer her in your direction...hehehehe

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Sat 09/20/08 09:44 PM



I still think they should have to wear signs


then the same applies to the good women....they should wear signs


I wear a sign....Cant read it....it backwards when I look in the mirror at my forhead. DETNAW SKREJ!!!slaphead


wow, i have the same sign!laugh

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:46 PM


lol....you got me


I have you as my backround pic now...hehehehehe..Every time a young pretty thang comes along...Ill steer her in your direction...hehehehe


that definitely sounds like a winner....but select the good ones for me :wink:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:03 PM

it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite frown


That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist.

You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time.

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Sat 09/20/08 10:05 PM


it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite frown


That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist.

You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time.


At least this one's honest.ohwell

johncarl's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:07 PM
i am one of the good guys go ahead email me.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:07 PM



it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite frown


That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist.

You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time.


At least this one's honest.ohwell


LOL. I am the FIRST to admit that I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times.

However, I am also one that will tell you that I treat the woman I am with as good as I possibly can, and be completely honest about that too.

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:09 PM




it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite frown


That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist.

You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time.


At least this one's honest.ohwell


LOL. I am the FIRST to admit that I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times.

However, I am also one that will tell you that I treat the woman I am with as good as I possibly can, and be completely honest about that too.


true, everyone has their times where they are not the greatest to be around...but to call a guy an as*hole because he is in a bad mood or something isn't right...women are the same way, and we don't call all of them b****es

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:11 PM



nice guys are out there,the stupid guys who only want ass,or the ones who beat woman.ruin it for the rest




woman have there moods far more then men have any so you cant call a guy a azzhole because of them days.

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:13 PM




nice guys are out there,the stupid guys who only want ass,or the ones who beat woman.ruin it for the rest




woman have there moods far more then men have any so you cant call a guy a azzhole because of them days.


so true....couldn't be said better

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:14 PM
what


noway


H-E-DOUBLE-ELL ....NO...!

noway


slaphead I was married to a WAC pitchfork for 33 yearsscared


UNH-UH....noway

But, WELCOME to Mingle2... flowers

And.. Thank you for helping to protect us..:heart:

I do believe everyone here respects Our Troops...love

Clark



JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:16 PM





it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite frown


That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist.

You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time.


At least this one's honest.ohwell


LOL. I am the FIRST to admit that I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times.

However, I am also one that will tell you that I treat the woman I am with as good as I possibly can, and be completely honest about that too.


true, everyone has their times where they are not the greatest to be around...but to call a guy an as*hole because he is in a bad mood or something isn't right...women are the same way, and we don't call all of them b****es


I'm not necessarily referring to having a " bad day ". Hell..everyone has bad days.

I am referring more to the fact that people ( men and women ) can be difficult to deal with. Those times more often than not, last for more than a day or two at a time.

Think about it this way...the women I have heard speak about their ex's mostly say " well...he was great about this, but a complete ass*ole about....."

It can't be avoided. You WILL ( no matter how great a guy you are ) will be considered an ass*ole for SOMETHING at some point by the one you are with.

Nova86's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:19 PM






it seams that every where i turn a nice guy ends up being compleatly oppsite frown


That's because the " nice guy " doesn't actually exist.

You can find a guy that is a LOT less of an ass*ole than most, you could even find one that is sweet, considerate, kind and treats you absolutely fantastic, but he'll still wind up being an ass*ole at least a little bit of the time.


At least this one's honest.ohwell


LOL. I am the FIRST to admit that I can be a bit difficult to deal with at times.

However, I am also one that will tell you that I treat the woman I am with as good as I possibly can, and be completely honest about that too.


true, everyone has their times where they are not the greatest to be around...but to call a guy an as*hole because he is in a bad mood or something isn't right...women are the same way, and we don't call all of them b****es


I'm not necessarily referring to having a " bad day ". Hell..everyone has bad days.

I am referring more to the fact that people ( men and women ) can be difficult to deal with. Those times more often than not, last for more than a day or two at a time.

Think about it this way...the women I have heard speak about their ex's mostly say " well...he was great about this, but a complete ass*ole about....."

It can't be avoided. You WILL ( no matter how great a guy you are ) will be considered an ass*ole for SOMETHING at some point by the one you are with.


gotcha man...but women can be the same way...why are guys labeled as a**holes when they do the same things

that is all that i am saying....i do everything that i can to make my woman happy....that pi**es me off if i am ever called an a**hole for something stupid