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jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Mon 09/22/08 02:36 AM
Yes I find myself on here more and more because I'm lonely and wanting someone to talk too. Anyone else?

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Mon 09/22/08 02:54 AM
yep !! only if the conversation is good !! but other wise I have plenty of local friends also I talk to ...or cause I like to read about how lonely everyone is

jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Mon 09/22/08 02:58 AM
I don't sit around wishing I had someone. I'm getting to the point in life to where I just want communication.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Mon 09/22/08 03:04 AM
(((Jimmy))) I think, whether people want to admit it or not, a lot of us came here for the same reason. Loneliness, boredom, something to fill a void that wasn't being filled in "real" life. You're hardly alone there! This can be a great place to hang out, just don't let it become your whole world

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 09/22/08 03:14 AM
I'll drink to that OH crap! I am so sorry Jimmy, I have to go and fix my comment to you on my board.

jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Mon 09/22/08 03:15 AM
(((Jimmy))) I think, whether people want to admit it or not, a lot of us came here for the same reason. Loneliness, boredom, something to fill a void that wasn't being filled in "real" life. You're hardly alone there! This can be a great place to hang out, just don't let it become your whole world Thanks Suzin Besides work which takes up 36 to 48 hours of my week I kinda lost track of most of my friends. I found myself revolving around work.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Mon 09/22/08 03:17 AM
(((Jimmy))) I think, whether people want to admit it or not, a lot of us came here for the same reason. Loneliness, boredom, something to fill a void that wasn't being filled in "real" life. You're hardly alone there! This can be a great place to hang out, just don't let it become your whole world Thanks Suzin Besides work which takes up 36 to 48 hours of my week I kinda lost track of most of my friends. I found myself revolving around work. Common trap in life, it's sometimes hard but you have to really put making YOU a priority and find a way to have some balance. Take a class, join a bowling/pool league, volunteer somewhere. Or whatever else floats your boat, so long as it's not work related and gets you out of the house every so often.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 09/22/08 03:27 AM Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 09/22/08 03:28 AM
YEAH BABE, I SO FEEL YOU!!! There are so many things I love about being single... but being lonely is not one of them... and im lonely alot. I have my dog, and she loves me, but its not quite the same as human companionship. Just know that we are all out here, and we think about you, and care about you, and you are never really alone... you have all of us... AND WE LOVE YOU!!!

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Mon 09/22/08 03:31 AM
I don't sit around wishing I had someone. I'm getting to the point in life to where I just want communication. and you will find some great convos on here bud !!

jimmy99005 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 5815	Mon 09/22/08 03:42 AM
YEAH BABE, I SO FEEL YOU!!! There are so many things I love about being single... but being lonely is not one of them... and im lonely alot. I have my dog, and she loves me, but its not quite the same as human companionship. Just know that we are all out here, and we think about you, and care about you, and you are never really alone... you have all of us... AND WE LOVE YOU!!! Thanks luv2rok Yes thats the greats thing about having dogs, no matter how bad you're day was their always happy to see you when you get home.

OneMoreTimeAround Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 3649	Mon 09/22/08 04:52 AM
lonely..for me anyway...is one of the emotions I tend to try to force away. So hence a "computer life" has been formed. Still...I'd rather be alone and lonely...that makes sense...then to be with someone and still feeling lonely. That just hurts.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Mon 09/22/08 05:20 AM
lonely..for me anyway...is one of the emotions I tend to try to force away. So hence a "computer life" has been formed. Still...I'd rather be alone and lonely...that makes sense...then to be with someone and still feeling lonely. That just hurts. Amen to that!!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 09/22/08 06:47 AM
Yes I find myself on here more and more because I'm lonely and wanting someone to talk too. Anyone else? I have a strong sense of someone/something missing from my life -- but that's not why I come here. This is a great outlet, with hundreds of wonderful people. It's about as good a distraction, a diversion, as I can imagine. Real solutions lie elsewhere.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 09/22/08 07:02 AM
I really like most of the people here and I think I would still hang out here even if I was not alone. I now know people here that I would miss if they were gone.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 09/22/08 07:09 AM
yes when i first came here that was the reason..... its just a plain ole addiction now but im not on here like i used to be since im not lonely anymore

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 09/22/08 07:16 AM
Yes I find myself on here more and more because I'm lonely and wanting someone to talk too. Anyone else? Yes, me too.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Mon 09/22/08 07:18 AM
I like this thread. Thanks for the topic, OP. It's straight. Communication here is good. Anyone can chime in, just being themselves, unpredictable and easy to develop talk, or slide over to any other subject. It scratches an itch.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Mon 09/22/08 07:20 AM
Yes I find myself on here more and more because I'm lonely and wanting someone to talk too. Anyone else? I have a strong sense of someone/something missing from my life -- but that's not why I come here. This is a great outlet, with hundreds of wonderful people. It's about as good a distraction, a diversion, as I can imagine. Real solutions lie elsewhere. Yeah, what he said.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76438	Mon 09/22/08 07:23 AM
Yes I find myself on here more and more because I'm lonely and wanting someone to talk too. Anyone else? I have a strong sense of someone/something missing from my life -- but that's not why I come here. This is a great outlet, with hundreds of wonderful people. It's about as good a distraction, a diversion, as I can imagine. Real solutions lie elsewhere. I must agree with this one for lonely I'm not. I have family and friends and of course my dog. Alone in a sense I'm but then at times that is no ones fault but my own since I tend to keep to myself and don't go out. Yes I miss that feeling of having someone to share my deepest feeling with. That one to cuddle up with and enjoy the moment. But lonely no just alone in ways that I miss the touch of another.