Topic: please help
Susie30's photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:10 PM
new to this and not sure what else to include on my profile if anything? haven't been on long but not to much luck yet.
Thanks.

sweetandstrong's photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:12 PM
What tribe?

Susie30's photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:12 PM
Cherokee

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:13 PM
Although your picture is adorable.....what a cute lil guy..........maybe add some more? I can't really say more as I haven't had the greatest of luck either...:smile:

Your on the right track just by getting in here and "mingling"!

Welcome and good luck!

Susie30's photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:14 PM
thanks

Morgan28oi's photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:16 PM
good advise

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:18 PM
Welcome and have a blast!bigsmile flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:18 PM

good advise
And welcome to you also...have a blast!bigsmile flowerforyou

GreenIz88's photo
Sat 09/20/08 08:40 PM
My advice...just go on and have fun! I met people from everywhere...Brazil, England, Canada...and around me too! Good luck to you...

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Sat 09/20/08 08:57 PM
You don't have much in the way of unique stuff in your profile information. There is bound to be something that sort of sets you apart from the herd, even if it's something you consider fairly unexciting--like sewing, cooking, being able to chug an entire pitcher of ale while standing on one foot and singing "You Picked A Fine Time To Leave Me Lucille", good with animals, etc. Like the stuff you talk about in your profile is stuff that you would like to do with a date, but it's not stuff that will ATTRACT a date if you see what I'm saying.

Of course you're a busy person and probably don't have a lot of spare time to dink around with hobbies or artsy craftsy stuff--I know how that is. But if you want for guys to message you, you should try to find at least one thing about yourself that's unique or unusual and talk about that.

Are you active in a club or church? Do you volunteer? Do people compliment your cooking? Do you like to read mystery novels? These are all little things that if mentioned in a profile will get someone's attention--and with any luck it will be someone you share some interests in and can get along with, and ultimately get something to happen with.

I'm part Cherokee too, by the way--on both sides of the family. :D It's nice to meet you.

Good luck. xoxoxo

Susie30's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:07 PM
Edited by Susie30 on Sat 09/20/08 09:22 PM
thanks for the replies so far I have added another photo still looking for others. Also added a couple of hobbies. Keep the ideas coming, I can use all the help I can get.

Susie30's photo
Sun 09/21/08 07:31 AM
So no other ideas for suggestions from anyone?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 09/21/08 03:08 PM
A little more about what kind of guy you are looking for would probably help.

Susie30's photo
Sun 09/28/08 06:05 PM
thanks for the help. keep it coming !!!