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Topic: Love?
Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sat 09/20/08 01:58 PM
I wouldnt know I havent had it in about 2 years, I think it means someone who's willing to so to say "Give up there own world" to someone else, and trust them with it. eh, i'm not willing to do that, so i guess i'll never see it Ya from what Ive seen its not too much for my best interest either lol. yeah, i'm more content watching my friends battle with "love" and then listening to them whine about how they're mistreated. very entertaining. Exactly, My next door neighbor apparently had been fighting with her soon to be husband last night over some stupid crap (Plus they were both wasted), I suppose If I found someone mature enough I would change my mind about love. always a plus, wasted neighbors who just need to break up and get it over with. well, you seem pretty grounded, i'm sure you will someday. :)

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 01:58 PM
I wouldnt know I havent had it in about 2 years, I think it means someone who's willing to so to say "Give up there own world" to someone else, and trust them with it. eh, i'm not willing to do that, so i guess i'll never see it Ya from what Ive seen its not too much for my best interest either lol. yeah, i'm more content watching my friends battle with "love" and then listening to them whine about how they're mistreated. very entertaining. Exactly, My next door neighbor apparently had been fighting with her soon to be husband last night over some stupid crap (Plus they were both wasted), I suppose If I found someone mature enough I would change my mind about love. always a plus, wasted neighbors who just need to break up and get it over with. well, you seem pretty grounded, i'm sure you will someday. :) I hope so

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sat 09/20/08 01:59 PM
The sense of freedom to love without expecting anything back... to love the Who of someone , not the What. Love... something that is as constant as breathing..through me, not from me. sounds exhausting. does breathing tire you? it exhilarates me nah i meant all the giving, that sounds tiring. however, since i have asthma, breathing can be exhausting for me too.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sat 09/20/08 02:03 PM
Love is truth, trust and safety all rolled in one person.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:04 PM
Love is truth, trust and safety all rolled in one person. I like that idea of a person

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 09/20/08 02:06 PM
Whats the definition of love to you? A 3 in a million shot at getting something perfect...so far I have Mountain Dew.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:07 PM
Whats the definition of love to you? A 3 in a million shot at getting something perfect...so far I have Mountain Dew. Ya Code Red is pretty good

dilligaf1981 Joined Fri 02/15/08 Posts: 308	Sat 09/20/08 02:07 PM
Dunno What The Answer Is To That......... I Spell It LUS*T

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sat 09/20/08 02:07 PM
Love is truth, trust and safety all rolled in one person. I like that idea of a person So do I, now the hard part is finding that needle in the haystack.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:09 PM
Love is truth, trust and safety all rolled in one person. I like that idea of a person So do I, now the hard part is finding that needle in the haystack. I dont think its possible to find it unless you devote your whole life to finding it now, its REALLY hard to find that these days.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:09 PM
Dunno What The Answer Is To That......... I Spell It LUS*T

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sat 09/20/08 02:11 PM
Dunno What The Answer Is To That......... I Spell It LUS*T Did I ever tell you my gf named her cat that....Dilligaf

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 09/20/08 02:12 PM
Love is truth, trust and safety all rolled in one person. I like that idea of a person So do I, now the hard part is finding that needle in the haystack. I dont think its possible to find it unless you devote your whole life to finding it now, its REALLY hard to find that these days. Says who? it's EVERYWHERE! Perhaps you mean it's really hard to FEEL it these days...

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:13 PM
Love is truth, trust and safety all rolled in one person. I like that idea of a person So do I, now the hard part is finding that needle in the haystack. I dont think its possible to find it unless you devote your whole life to finding it now, its REALLY hard to find that these days. Says who? it's EVERYWHERE! Perhaps you mean it's really hard to FEEL it these days... Ya I suppose that says it better, I know it still exists and what not, I dont think people quite know how to express it much though.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 09/20/08 02:14 PM Edited by ArtGurl on Sat 09/20/08 02:15 PM
The sense of freedom to love without expecting anything back... to love the Who of someone , not the What. Love... something that is as constant as breathing..through me, not from me. sounds exhausting. does breathing tire you? it exhilarates me nah i meant all the giving, that sounds tiring. however, since i have asthma, breathing can be exhausting for me too. all that giving is tiring when there is an expectation attached to it ... love ... as an extension of one's being ... is tireless... too many misconceptions in the world about what love is and what it has to look like ... it is a shame ... sorry about the asthma - I hope that breathing too becomes effortless for you

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 09/20/08 02:15 PM
Whats the definition of love to you? i think love is a word that should of never been spoken or written,especially when theres a fine line between it and hate

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:16 PM
Whats the definition of love to you? i think love is a word that should of never been spoken or written,especially when theres a fine line between it and hate Lol oh ya I know ALOT about that, I think almost every relationship Ive had was a love/hate one.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 09/20/08 02:17 PM
Whats the definition of love to you? i think love is a word that should of never been spoken or written,especially when theres a fine line between it and hate There is????? EEEEEK! I found a real dichotomy in this love/hate thingo... It's seems the more you free yourself from self gratification love, the less one feels dislike, contempt and even that hate thingo. So maybe love BIG, or Bigger, with no thought of what you GET, and the whole fine line will just wiggle away.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Sat 09/20/08 02:17 PM
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Matt8947 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 426	Sat 09/20/08 02:19 PM
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. I love that verse =)