Topic: I Refuse
phirequest's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:38 AM

To relocate for a relationship again.The First time I did wouldn't you know it.6 months later and the relatioship soured.I lost everything to move back home.I had to start all over again.we had talked and met for about a year.
suddenly things changed dramaticaly when I moved to her location.She became someone I didn't know.Guess she showed her true colors and I didn't like what I saw.noway

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:39 AM
That's why it's more practical to "date" locallly.

rebel58's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:41 AM
I am so sorry for you. Just don't give up all of us are not like that. :smile:

phirequest's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:43 AM

I am so sorry for you. Just don't give up all of us are not like that. :smile:


Thanks,,,I know it makes it hard on everyone because of those who areslaphead

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:50 AM
There is a huge difference between knowing someone on line and, knowing them in person.

phirequest's photo
Sat 09/20/08 09:53 AM

There is a huge difference between knowing someone on line and, knowing them in person.


We did spend time together before I made the move..I'ts not like we just met online and moved in together.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:00 AM
Absolutely no LDR's for me. Local only!! It's the best way..

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:00 AM

That's why it's more practical to "date" locallly.




I agree

BeautifulMommaOf3's photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:01 AM
This would be my fear.

There are no men around here (well not that I'd chose to date) so relocating for someone would be my option. With kids that freaks me to no end.

I'm sorry it's happened to you. Not all of us out here are crazy like that. Well....a little crazy but a little crazy is good, right? :banana:

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 10:12 AM
I only relocated once in my life, and I will never do it again..we were in love and all that good stuff...but when it fell apart, I was stuck in the middle of no-where without my friends or family for support....

Not worth it...

no photo
Sat 09/20/08 05:46 PM
Nope not me either..not even an option...I almost did it once, thank goodness I came to my senses. He ended up in a bad relationship & making another baby to add to his 4 he already had with first wife! Far as I know, he's single again.

Thomas27's photo
Sat 09/20/08 05:55 PM
Ok, now what? Is everything ok?

luv2roknroll's photo
Sat 09/20/08 05:57 PM
WOW, I WISH SOMEONE WOULD RELOCATE FOR ME...ALL THE GUYS I WANT LIVE TOO FAR AWAY!!!!!!!!sad