Topic: Rich or poor prospective mate?
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Sun 04/01/07 11:17 PM
:heart: It only takes HEARTS to LOVE!!!!!

But ISSUE'S of spending money on BOTH sides CAN be problems that MUST be
addressed, and no one should demand the other to perform, both should do
SOME job even if it is simply house hold chores....
And if BOTH WORK,,,then the house hold chores should be shared.
THATS REAL LOVE,,,FOLKS!!!!flowerforyou :heart: smokin

Sluggo's photo
Sun 04/01/07 11:17 PM
LMAO SillyGirl: "So to answer the question a bank account does not make
me interested in a person, the person makes me interested in the Back
Account" laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 04/01/07 11:52 PM
I think the phone makes the guy *nudges sluggo* :wink:

L1ly29's photo
Mon 04/02/07 10:28 PM
Money doesn't revolve my world nor does it complete how I feel inside. I
could be single with all the money in the world and not be happy. I'd
rather date someone for who they are and how they feel about themselves
and what that means to them.

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Fri 06/15/07 12:25 PM
huh

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 06/15/07 12:27 PM
it is important to have goals and want to better yourself!!!
no money, no job..is okay as long as you are headed to better yourself
and grow- not just using someone

creationsfire's photo
Fri 06/15/07 04:55 PM
I've lived under the poverty level my ENTIRE life. Money helps, and if a
guy was not working either to make money or better our situation/ then
no.

If they were, then yes cuz I have in the past. Money makes things easier
but when you have to stand in line in front of a church on public to
wait for spoiled food to put on the table; makes you think eh?

I have no need for pretty things, but my heart cries out for a soulmate.
His bank account makes no difference.

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 06/15/07 05:26 PM
I just want someone to love me for me, money doesnt play in it, but I am
not willing to support someone who sits at home, and expects me to come
home and do all the housework after a day at work.

SammyJo27's photo
Fri 06/15/07 05:46 PM
I want a man who can pull his own weight. I want a partner who meets me
in the middle.

mnhiker's photo
Fri 06/15/07 06:13 PM
It depends.

If I found a nice woman
who didn't have much money
but wasn't vain or selfish
and treated me well,
that would be great.

But I wouldn't live with
a beeyatch for all
the tea in China
or all the oil
in Arabia.

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Tue 06/19/07 10:58 AM
I think there is too much bs in the world ty!laugh laugh laugh
laugh laugh

heatherrae's photo
Tue 06/19/07 12:54 PM
money isnt important. at one point several years ago when my ex husband
was still trying to get me back. he would say to me "i have a lot more
money than jeff, jeff is poor. if you come home to me i'll pay all your
bills and buy you anything you want. jeff cant do that for you."

my response to him was "i would rather live under a bridge with jeff and
be happy than live in a castle with you and be miserable"

Donnafisher's photo
Tue 06/19/07 01:33 PM
money isn't everything if the guy I was seeing didn't have money that
would not stop me from loving him....

TwilightsTwin's photo
Tue 06/19/07 01:37 PM
It wouldnt matter as long as they were motivated to change their
hardships (if poor or bankrupt). Love is love, love is forever.
Financial status can change in a blink of in eye, it is something that
can be changed/improved. You cant buy love.

sassystacey69xx's photo
Tue 06/19/07 01:44 PM
Yes money makes the world go round but there are things that money just
cant buy like love,friendship and the trueness of yourself

oldsage's photo
Tue 06/19/07 01:45 PM
Part of any relationship would involve knowledge of their personal
ethics & life style. Have never/would never be associated with someone
didn't have similar work/financial/social ethics. Believe good ethics
are a part of personal pride. Money can always be made if you want to.
Work ethics are learned when young & stay with you forever.

carebear19622's photo
Tue 06/19/07 01:49 PM
It would not matter to me. But I make a good living as an engineer.
Still I would rather have love than money. ( But it helps )

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Tue 06/19/07 01:57 PM
I agree with you sage. Now, money is relative. Who, here in their
right minds wants to go out with a guy or girl who won't work, because
they are lazy a** bums??? I sure won't!!!

If a person gets up, goes to work, doesnt call in sick every 2 days, and
has integrity and morals, then I would definately consider them. Hey,
at least I am honest.....:tongue: :tongue:

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Tue 06/19/07 01:58 PM
unlike some of the bs Ive read here !!!!:tongue: :tongue: :tongue: OK
HIT ME!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

oldsage's photo
Tue 06/19/07 02:10 PM
Only if you hit me frst, SEVERAL times.
Bite me, Beat me, make me feel WANTED.
:tongue: :tongue: :wink: :wink: laugh