Topic: Show your friends list
TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:44 PM
I feel the same way for why ask others to be on your friends list if your not going to show them?

Makes me wonder if they are hiding them for a reason.

But now Stealth Mode some believe the same thing about it but yeah I do use the Stealth Mode but due to I must look at a lot of profiles and not because I'm interested in them per-say cause I must at times.bigsmile

Dan99's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:49 PM
I havent used stealth mode myself at all yet, im not sure i need to use it, i dont really browse random profiles at all. I only check people out that i see posting. I used to like the feature on my last site, but only because there was annoying threads where people would always post if you looked at them.


cottonelle's photo
Fri 09/19/08 12:58 PM

I havent used stealth mode myself at all yet, im not sure i need to use it, i dont really browse random profiles at all. I only check people out that i see posting. I used to like the feature on my last site, but only because there was annoying threads where people would always post if you looked at them.



i was thinking of making one of those threads to make it feel more like bom

i could also go drag some of brightchamers threads over here (hes been on a roll lately) LOL

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:02 PM

I havent used stealth mode myself at all yet, im not sure i need to use it, i dont really browse random profiles at all. I only check people out that i see posting. I used to like the feature on my last site, but only because there was annoying threads where people would always post if you looked at them.





Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh give it time you will see those too use to have a lot of them until Stealth Mode was offered shsh they get all bent out of shape cause someone looked at them shshshnoway Heck I can't even get anyone to perv my profile I mean this is a dating site the only way you can read profiles is too look right? slaphead

Dan99's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:02 PM


I havent used stealth mode myself at all yet, im not sure i need to use it, i dont really browse random profiles at all. I only check people out that i see posting. I used to like the feature on my last site, but only because there was annoying threads where people would always post if you looked at them.



i was thinking of making one of those threads to make it feel more like bom

i could also go drag some of brightchamers threads over here (hes been on a roll lately) LOL


NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

Phil, i will kick your arse if you do that! lol

no photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:03 PM


maybe they like their privacy?


But if you are being open and honest, why do people need this kind of privacy?


openness and honesty online??? where???laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:03 PM

I have got mine visible, i had to choose to show it as by default it is hidden from public view.

If you wanna make yours visible too, you can do it my clicking on 'edit profile' and down the bottom you will see an option to show it.

I think people should be open about who they are talking to and are friends with. If you choose to keep yours hidden, why do you?






I don't wanna :tongue:

catchme_ifucan's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:08 PM
I'm on your profile {{Louis}}:wink:


I want my # of friends to show so I can see if any leave
& hunt them back down.. devil

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:16 PM

I'm on your profile {{Louis}}:wink:


I want my # of friends to show so I can see if any leave
& hunt them back down.. devil



Me too he don't want anyone to know who his friends aretears tears tears tears tears tongue2 tongue2

Dan99's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:21 PM
Maybe he is just hiding the fact he talks to a lot of leather clad men? lol

Id like to see a total number of friends too, so i would notice when people leave my list. If anyone has deleted me or left the site so far, i wouldnt have noticed.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:24 PM



its called the "players feature"


I disagree darlin'... Sometimes it's b/c some people go around seeing who your friends with and then snaking their way into being their friends too...

dont bother me none, my friends are not here just for me


It never bothered me either but lately have had some little things happen so have been debating to show or not....

Lily0923's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:52 PM

Will you be my friend? I think if I add you I'd be funnier and less of a hussy biotch....


Ya, good luck with that one lillith..... rofl rofl rofl

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:53 PM

I have got mine visible, i had to choose to show it as by default it is hidden from public view.

If you wanna make yours visible too, you can do it my clicking on 'edit profile' and down the bottom you will see an option to show it.

I think people should be open about who they are talking to and are friends with. If you choose to keep yours hidden, why do you?





I couldn't agree more .. secrets are suspicious eh? shades scared

Lily0923's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:55 PM
I only have the cream of the crop on my friends list, I want everyone to know how incredible I am....

I was told on the phone last night (or this morning however you look at it) that I was not only witty but modest too.... wait, what?oops

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 09/19/08 01:55 PM


its called the "players feature"


I disagree darlin'... Sometimes it's b/c some people go around seeing who your friends with and then snaking their way into being their friends too...



well I think both of you are right, just depends on the person

and if you are here for friends or dates .. if dates then ya, I can see Phil's point for sure.

Dan99's photo
Fri 09/19/08 02:26 PM

I only have the cream of the crop on my friends list, I want everyone to know how incredible I am....

I was told on the phone last night (or this morning however you look at it) that I was not only witty but modest too.... wait, what?oops


AND you have me on your list!

Lily0923's photo
Fri 09/19/08 02:27 PM
I know it can get a bit riff raffy at times in there...

cottonelle's photo
Fri 09/19/08 02:44 PM

I only have the cream of the crop on my friends list, I want everyone to know how incredible I am....

I was told on the phone last night (or this morning however you look at it) that I was not only witty but modest too.... wait, what?oops

WOW! they must have some good stuff. can you ask them if they have anymore? lol

mischievouskttn's photo
Fri 09/19/08 04:08 PM
Edited by mischievouskttn on Fri 09/19/08 04:08 PM
I really could give a crap one way or the other about friends lists showing or not...I didn't realize that the default was to have it invisible until it was pointed out to me..and then I made it visible just to avoid questions as to why it wouldn't be *shrugs*. Personally, I'd prefer to keep it hidden 'cause I don't use it to show off or advertise how many friends I do or don't have.

I don't use the stealth feature often either..if I did it would be because I didn't feel like talking to anyone..I don't go ninja to perv profiles, 'cause I do it to learn who ya are..and what's wrong with that?..I've probably checked out most of you at one time or another and I've not had any complaints..yet bigsmile

TwilightsTwin's photo
Fri 09/19/08 04:12 PM
i like to show mine off:wink: