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Topic: didn't know where else to post this...
lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 09:15 AM
Strong feelings are strong feelings, whether they be positive or negative. You're not over him.

luckycharm89's photo
Fri 09/19/08 09:24 AM

I promise you this...if you play games back and forth, you are headed for nothing but heartache. Then it will become a game of who can hurt who the worse...its really not worth it. I think right now you are so full of anger that it didn't work out...you go through so many fases when you go through a divorce. This will pass in a month if you don't play his games..if you do, its never going to end!!


I didn't even think of it like that. I'm just so irritated just because of the person she is...

And I guess I'm not over him...this is still fresh. I want to get to the point where I'm completely over him and can move on without caring what he does and with who he does it with.

Thanks again for all the advice flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 09:30 AM
Don't call him, don't check on him, and leave it....

That is the only way you can move on.

luckycharm89's photo
Fri 09/19/08 09:31 AM
And I'm going to take that advice...thanks :smile:

lilith401's photo
Fri 09/19/08 09:34 AM

And I'm going to take that advice...thanks :smile:


I know how hard this is..... I've been there done that. Keep your head held high and you'll feel better once it's all said and done. flowerforyou

luckycharm89's photo
Fri 09/19/08 09:49 AM
flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Fri 09/19/08 10:20 AM

Strong feelings are strong feelings, whether they be positive or negative. You're not over him.
agreed

dixielee's photo
Sat 09/20/08 12:53 AM
It's pissing you off simply because you're allowing it. YOU controll your emotions and other's can only bother you if you allow it. Chanches are he knows this already and is simply playing his little macho game for that reason and with you getting pissed.... guess who's winning?

SharpShooter10's photo
Sat 09/20/08 03:03 AM

Sooo my ex and I are still technically married but are seperated and going through a divorce. I don't want him anymore, he's screwed me over too much...so tell me why I'm so PISSED OFF that he's talking to his whore of an ex-girlfriend last night?!

Now, Myspace doesn't mean much, and those stupid apps are just that -- stupid. But when I looked at who bought people from me, I noticed she bought him and changed his status to "I had a great time goin over the past with you tonite babe.call me tomorrow"

WTF?! Babe? Excuse me b*ch, we're still legally married.

She tried to break us up numerous times and tried to cause so much **** between us...has he LOST IT?! This girl cheated on him with one of HIS OWN BROTHERS...as soon as she sees we're going through ****, she has to jump in. UUGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was shaking I was so pissed off. And I don't even know if I have that right!

Should I just let it go?

it can be hard to let go of some feelings at times and for a while. Best wishes flowerforyou

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