Topic: Confused guy :(
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Fri 09/19/08 02:57 AM
So i have been talking to this lovely lady for a while now.... I get mix feelings from her.... she says she want to be in a serious relationship and yet wants to be friends. She talks about wanting sex and then dont. I told her we should wait..... I am a bit lost... any advice? She is 21 hottie and i'm 25 simple guy.

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Fri 09/19/08 03:01 AM
And what do women mean by friends? I have a feeling she still want me to romance her. I never knew friends could do that?

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Fri 09/19/08 03:01 AM
Sounds like she doesnt know wat she wants!

Friendship is always a good start....work on that till she decides wat she actually wants.


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Fri 09/19/08 03:07 AM
Well she said she do want me and wants me to meet the parents who i am nervous as heck..... I am nervous about her because she told me she use to be a "man eater".

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Fri 09/19/08 03:10 AM
Edited by papersmile on Fri 09/19/08 03:12 AM
i've never understood why people join these sites almost immediately after they get involved with someone. it seems to me like an oddity.

anyway, maybe she wants to concentrate on the friendship thing and make the entire relationship more meaningful than just a roll in the hay, especially if this has happened to her in the past.

if you really like the girl, you'll let her set the pace and work along with it, if you can.


(oh and hi lisa; nice to see you around again!)

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Fri 09/19/08 03:17 AM
I join to find some advice really and i dont want to make the same mistakes. We met online....

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Fri 09/19/08 03:19 AM
Edited by Aragorn25 on Fri 09/19/08 03:23 AM
Hmm and she says she see us together....

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Fri 09/19/08 04:01 AM

Hmm and she says she see us together....


She can say she is purple. But those are just ink on paper, so to speak. Wait till you see actions that back up the words.

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Fri 09/19/08 04:04 AM
Yea what she said


Hmm and she says she see us together....


She can say she is purple. But those are just ink on paper, so to speak. Wait till you see actions that back up the words.

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Fri 09/19/08 04:06 AM


Hmm and she says she see us together....


She can say she is purple. But those are just ink on paper, so to speak. Wait till you see actions that back up the words.
yep!!!
talk is cheap.....especially online!!!
if they wont go any farther than online chatting or talking on the phone.......your just a muse for them.......move on, or enjoy it for what it is.

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Fri 09/19/08 04:12 AM
we exchange info and a bit nervous. Blue eyes 5'7 and skinny and plays college rugby. lol

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Fri 09/19/08 07:53 AM
we exchange info and a bit nervous. Blue eyes 5'7 and skinny and plays college rugby. lol


Translation pls!!

(oh and hi lisa; nice to see you around again!)


Thanks doll!!

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Fri 09/19/08 07:54 AM
she is 21....not many know, unequivocally, what we want at age 21...

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Fri 09/19/08 07:56 AM
when I was 21 I wanted a donut!!!noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 09/19/08 07:56 AM
i wanted the hole!


when I was 21 I wanted a donut!!!noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/29/08 11:17 PM
Take control...be decisive, make the decision(s). Don't be the "Confused guy" anymore. Don't go too far though, otherwise, that's called rape.

Roco

p.s. -- really man, she's wanting you to be a bit more assertive.

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Mon 09/29/08 11:22 PM

Sounds like she doesnt know wat she wants!

Friendship is always a good start....work on that till she decides wat she actually wants.




I agree with the first part of your assessment, but I don't with the second...c'mon..if he waits till she decides what she wants...they're going to wait'n for a real long time...

Roco

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Mon 09/29/08 11:35 PM

when I was 21 I wanted a donut!!!noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


Hey, I'm 47 and still want one! Yum! laugh

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Mon 09/29/08 11:36 PM

i wanted the hole!


when I was 21 I wanted a donut!!!noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



Did you ever get it? LOL rofl

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Tue 09/30/08 05:31 AM

Well she said she do want me and wants me to meet the parents who i am nervous as heck..... I am nervous about her because she told me she use to be a "man eater".
in the words of Dirty Harry, "A man's got to know his limitations!" I forgot, you're kinda young, that's Clint Eastwood. Careful out there...